as for domestic abuse, the cause is usually a combination of entitlement ( you'll find that most people that beat their spouse do it because they believe their spouse isn't treating them as they should- and that violence is the answer) and bigotry (they usually see their spouse as lesser than them) address the bigotry( and the reliance on violence, and preferably the entitlement) and you should be able to prevent them re-offending. NOTE- I am NOT saying it justifies punching your spouse. I am merely explaining how these people think.
as for curing someone of taking something that isn't theirs, I suspect their mentality is "I want that, so it's mine"- address that ( I don't personally know how) and it should stop.
Also, my point is that caning- and corporal punishment in general- is not the right response.
In fact, the case cited in this thread ( Michael Fay) is actually an example of one of the issues with corporal punishment- Originally, the law was for caning when it's graffiti by an INDELIBLE substance. Fay keyed cars. Not the same thing. ( indeed, the law in question is an example- it was brought in to combat political graffiti) And the judge extended it, presumably because the judge thought that Fay "needed a good thrashing"- Note how the motivation is actually similar to that of a wife beater? The simple fact is that punishments like caning tend to be extended to cover more and more offences- to the point that with situations like this, you risk getting more serious crime, because it isn't actually punished much worse.
Not to mention, in Fay's case, he pled guilty because it was promised he wouldn't be caned- apparently they lied.
Oh, I'm not saying he wasn't screwed up- he apparently became a drug addict when he returned to the US, and has been in and out of trouble with the law- but caning him was overly harsh.
as for curing someone of taking something that isn't theirs, I suspect their mentality is "I want that, so it's mine"- address that ( I don't personally know how) and it should stop.
Also, my point is that caning- and corporal punishment in general- is not the right response.
In fact, the case cited in this thread ( Michael Fay) is actually an example of one of the issues with corporal punishment- Originally, the law was for caning when it's graffiti by an INDELIBLE substance. Fay keyed cars. Not the same thing. ( indeed, the law in question is an example- it was brought in to combat political graffiti) And the judge extended it, presumably because the judge thought that Fay "needed a good thrashing"- Note how the motivation is actually similar to that of a wife beater? The simple fact is that punishments like caning tend to be extended to cover more and more offences- to the point that with situations like this, you risk getting more serious crime, because it isn't actually punished much worse.
Not to mention, in Fay's case, he pled guilty because it was promised he wouldn't be caned- apparently they lied.
Oh, I'm not saying he wasn't screwed up- he apparently became a drug addict when he returned to the US, and has been in and out of trouble with the law- but caning him was overly harsh.
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