Back when the US was first talking about going into Iraq I lost a few rather emotional American friends simply because I said it was a bad idea and linked to a friend of mine's essay on precisely why it was a bad idea and why it violated many international laws.
That very argument came up: "We're all shocked and grieving so we should be allowed to let our rage run free and do whatever makes us feel better."
I made an unpopular analogy. Let's say your friend Bob is a smoker and he suddenly found himself diagnosed with lung cancer, and died within weeks of diagnosis. Bob's wife Mary is livid, and wants to do something, so she tells you she's going to make a bomb and blow up a nearby Phillip Morris distribution centre, almost certainly killing a bunch of innocent employees.
Would you let her go ahead with it? Of course not. Grief-stricken rage is not a free pass to behave exactly as you want with no repercussions.
By refusing to tell my friends that their government was perfectly within its rights to kill untold thousands of civilians in a foreign country because something bad happened to them, I was apparently being insensitive and I lost a few friends over it. Personally I thought, and still think, that it was fucking insanity.
That very argument came up: "We're all shocked and grieving so we should be allowed to let our rage run free and do whatever makes us feel better."
I made an unpopular analogy. Let's say your friend Bob is a smoker and he suddenly found himself diagnosed with lung cancer, and died within weeks of diagnosis. Bob's wife Mary is livid, and wants to do something, so she tells you she's going to make a bomb and blow up a nearby Phillip Morris distribution centre, almost certainly killing a bunch of innocent employees.
Would you let her go ahead with it? Of course not. Grief-stricken rage is not a free pass to behave exactly as you want with no repercussions.
By refusing to tell my friends that their government was perfectly within its rights to kill untold thousands of civilians in a foreign country because something bad happened to them, I was apparently being insensitive and I lost a few friends over it. Personally I thought, and still think, that it was fucking insanity.
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