I just found my grandmother's headstone(well, it's always been there, but until she passed in 2008, there was just a line after her birth year) I've always known it was going to happen, and when it finally did, it just didn't seem real.
After her final service at the cemetary, my mother made me get back into the family limo, she didn't want me to see my grandmother being put in the ground. (I was 28 at the time) She watched my grandpa,(I was 3 weeks old at that time) and said she will never forget it. I was thankful for her concern, but also slightly put off, as I wanted closure, but today I got it. I mean, yes I know she is gone, but I guess seeing it...well, I don't know. I've had my cry, but I was happy...um, relieved. I don't know. We also have pictures of my grandma in her casket. It was an "accident" but I am grateful for it.
Thank you for letting me go off on my little tangent. I find this whole thread fascinating, and now I don't feel bad for being interested in any of these things either...I'm "normal"
After her final service at the cemetary, my mother made me get back into the family limo, she didn't want me to see my grandmother being put in the ground. (I was 28 at the time) She watched my grandpa,(I was 3 weeks old at that time) and said she will never forget it. I was thankful for her concern, but also slightly put off, as I wanted closure, but today I got it. I mean, yes I know she is gone, but I guess seeing it...well, I don't know. I've had my cry, but I was happy...um, relieved. I don't know. We also have pictures of my grandma in her casket. It was an "accident" but I am grateful for it.
Thank you for letting me go off on my little tangent. I find this whole thread fascinating, and now I don't feel bad for being interested in any of these things either...I'm "normal"
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