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Good article, made me think. There's a big difference between telling people, "You deserve to be raped cuz of your actions" and giving them advice on how to stay safe, like "Don't get into unmarked taxi cabs, don't go home with a stranger and don't drink so much you become insensible." In a perfect world, a woman would be safe wherever she is, but sadly in the world we have now, people are not nice.
I wonder why it became the norm to lean towards telling young men to respect young women, and not telling young women to respect themselves. When I was a teenager, the onus was on the woman to keep herself safe; now, the balance has skewed right over to telling men not to commit rape. Surely there's a happy medium?
Good article, made me think. There's a big difference between telling people, "You deserve to be raped cuz of your actions" and giving them advice on how to stay safe, like "Don't get into unmarked taxi cabs, don't go home with a stranger and don't drink so much you become insensible." In a perfect world, a woman would be safe wherever she is, but sadly in the world we have now, people are not nice.
I wonder why it became the norm to lean towards telling young men to respect young women, and not telling young women to respect themselves. When I was a teenager, the onus was on the woman to keep herself safe; now, the balance has skewed right over to telling men not to commit rape. Surely there's a happy medium?
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