I can't imagine showing up at someone's house totally unannounced/uninvited. At the very least, call ahead by a bit and ask "Can I come over."
The exception for me would be someone who lives pretty much literally next door. If a phone conversation about visiting is more time than actually just walking over, then that's something where I'd be at least alright with it. Because if I say yes, I've saved time, and if I say no, you didn't lose much of anything.
Anything else is both impractical and uncomfortable. I don't always like talking to people, and sometimes I don't want to do something. Or already have someone there. Or have promised to spend the day with someone online. Or am in the middle of a game or something. All sorts of things. It's just not at all reasonable, and if I don't want to talk to you,now you need to go all the way back. And that's just silly.
The exception for me would be someone who lives pretty much literally next door. If a phone conversation about visiting is more time than actually just walking over, then that's something where I'd be at least alright with it. Because if I say yes, I've saved time, and if I say no, you didn't lose much of anything.
Anything else is both impractical and uncomfortable. I don't always like talking to people, and sometimes I don't want to do something. Or already have someone there. Or have promised to spend the day with someone online. Or am in the middle of a game or something. All sorts of things. It's just not at all reasonable, and if I don't want to talk to you,now you need to go all the way back. And that's just silly.
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