Originally posted by siead_lietrathua
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And before you make the argument that so are the guys, let me ask this: who's easier to achieve a closer likeness to Superman or Supergirl? With Superman, a guy can actually go out and work out and achieve a fitness level that can make him feel/look close to his idol. What does a girl have to do to look like Supergirl? Go get surgery more than likely. That's a major difference to me.
like, seriously, that starfire article annoyed me. giving a kid the adult version of a comic and making them uncomfortable over their favorite character when designed for an adult audience is both ridiculous to do, and mean to the kid. a 7 year old should not be reading any and all comics on the market, some are just NOT for kids. hell the page on the comic he's using as an example, that he showed his daughter, is two characters talking about having sex! yet the parent just handed it to their 7 year old?
seriously, would you hand your kid a copy of Purgatori, Crossed, Night of the living dead? heck, should a 7 year old kid be reading the Avenger's Academy Arena games, which is basically a Battle Royale? or the darker, adult batman comics full of psychological issues and death?
i get people are concerned with kid's and their concepts of body image. but by the time they should be reading comics with that level of violent and sexual content, they should already have it hammered in their head from their parents the difference between fantasy and reality.
seriously, would you hand your kid a copy of Purgatori, Crossed, Night of the living dead? heck, should a 7 year old kid be reading the Avenger's Academy Arena games, which is basically a Battle Royale? or the darker, adult batman comics full of psychological issues and death?
i get people are concerned with kid's and their concepts of body image. but by the time they should be reading comics with that level of violent and sexual content, they should already have it hammered in their head from their parents the difference between fantasy and reality.
http://www.blastr.com/2011/09/has_dc...up_two_mor.php
http://comicsalliance.com/starfire-c...-superheroine/
http://www.autostraddle.com/super-t-...arfire-117766/
http://wtfdccomics.wordpress.com/201...f-dc-starfire/
As to handing the kid the comic, sure, the parent should've perhaps done more due diligence. But at the same time, there's an indication that the child has been reading DC for a while. That she's seen Starfire in previous incarnations, not just from Teen Titans. So the parent is functioning on prior knowledge that the series and comic, while perhaps a bit risque, have been at a suitable understanding for their child. They felt comfortable going ahead with this company, just to have the reboot go so far the deep end into T&A territory it's ridiculous.
and, i'm sure many women can speak from experience on this one. it's far more damaging to hear our moms go one about all the flaws she hates in herself. the weight she needs to loose, the hair she hates, her skintone, she needs to hit the gym more, blah blah. and to look in the mirror and see those same flaws she is disparaging. it's far more damaging to hear parents say how you should change your hair/ clothes/ diet/ etc so you can be prettier. THAT shit screws up a kid more than any comic could.
seriously. by the time i began reading comics that would be considered adult (purgatori being one), i was already an obese preteen from the original PTSD weight i gained, and the yoyo diets my mother made me join her on. seeing depictions of female characters that were comfortable in their own skin, regardless of how different they were from other people, was a very empowering thing. that is the kind of stuff that helped me see that it's all about how you perceive yourself, not what others want you to be. sure, she was hot, and half naked most the time. but it was her preference to be herself, in all her demonic awesomeness, instead of hiding herself by disguising as just another human, that stuck with me more than what her costumes were like.
seriously. by the time i began reading comics that would be considered adult (purgatori being one), i was already an obese preteen from the original PTSD weight i gained, and the yoyo diets my mother made me join her on. seeing depictions of female characters that were comfortable in their own skin, regardless of how different they were from other people, was a very empowering thing. that is the kind of stuff that helped me see that it's all about how you perceive yourself, not what others want you to be. sure, she was hot, and half naked most the time. but it was her preference to be herself, in all her demonic awesomeness, instead of hiding herself by disguising as just another human, that stuck with me more than what her costumes were like.
Heck, even the recent fighting game, [i]Injustice[i], couldn't resist making all the women look like they were simpering across the fighting stage. And I realize fighting games are, again, more for guys, but these are supposed to be competent fighters. I don't think an arm posed to the side as we cross step our way to an opponent is a good fighting style.
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