rabbi tells parents-incest rape is ok

[Shangri-laschild]

I would argue it has little to do with religion. The "it happens all the time" component is the more damaging aspect of the Rabbi's argument as it indicates a mentality that is often seen in more insular groups as "well if it happens all the time it's normal thus not wrong"

Exactly. The fact that he didn't report it (through secular or non secular means) is only half of the issue. The other half is that he told the parents that it was not a big deal. Of course, the fact that the parents listened and didn't put a stop to it even just among themselves is pretty screwed up too.