not to mention that a "safe space" where you don't offend someone no matter what makes vastly more sense in a dorm room- provided it is limited to that person's own dorm room- than somewhere public. ( the rule of thumb I would go by is that you can't offend someone inside their own dorm room- and try not to make noise audible from other dorm rooms- but in common areas, the rule is "no harassment/bullying" not "no offense whatsoever. ( to illustrate the difference, if you are willingly visiting a muslim student's dorm room for some reason, and they are of a culture that requires women wear a hijab, then it's probably better to wear one. If you are merely resident in the same dorm building, then they would just need to put up with it.)
oh, and to make an obvious point: an RA/ whoever is nominally "in charge" of the dorm building should largely stay out of disputes between residents, with one exception. If there has been an attempt to resolve the issue by the residents themselves, which has failed, then the RA stepping in is not only fine, but arguably required. ( I'm thinking of cases like one resident not fairly sharing a communal bathroom- say, using the shower for an extended period when other people also need to take a shower, to the point that other students are forced to choose between skipping having a shower, or being late for class- or, for that matter, hogging any communal cooking facilities in such a way to effectively deny them to other students, albeit that is likely to be less of an issue, since most colleges offer meal plans that allow you to eat in the cafeteria/canteen to at least get 3 solid meals per day.
oh, and to make an obvious point: an RA/ whoever is nominally "in charge" of the dorm building should largely stay out of disputes between residents, with one exception. If there has been an attempt to resolve the issue by the residents themselves, which has failed, then the RA stepping in is not only fine, but arguably required. ( I'm thinking of cases like one resident not fairly sharing a communal bathroom- say, using the shower for an extended period when other people also need to take a shower, to the point that other students are forced to choose between skipping having a shower, or being late for class- or, for that matter, hogging any communal cooking facilities in such a way to effectively deny them to other students, albeit that is likely to be less of an issue, since most colleges offer meal plans that allow you to eat in the cafeteria/canteen to at least get 3 solid meals per day.
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