Originally posted by jackfaire
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She has issues walking, getting up, and can't go a day without help from her service dog.
Not only that, strangers at the store don't look at someone with ADD and say "what's wrong with them"? They don't act like someone who has ADD has some highly contageous disease.
ADD doesn't require surgery after surgery and tons of physical pain requiring very strong medications that destroy the liver and kidneys. my wife has endured this her entire life. Because of it she's dislocated her hip twice in the past year and is trying to find a surgeon who is willing to operate on her to help contain the issue (there is no way to "cure" it now).
You need to look at genetic issues in the parents and decide if it is worth the risk. If you have ADD but your partner doesn't then chances are that the children won't have it and if they do, most likely it will be manageable. For my wife and I the risks are too great - why risk making a child go though what she went though especially when there are so many children out there who need to be adopted?
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