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  • #16
    Now that is very cool on the part of your boss, Mongo, and I don't blame you for wanting to give him a gift. That sounds like something the Manager that I worked for my first 3.5+ years at the Hardware Store, (local chain, not Big Box) until he retired, would have done.

    He's one of the people I respect most, from all I've met in my now 52+ years, and I think that is really saying something, considering he was "part of my life" for such a relatively short time, and so late in my life, at a point where I've become much more cynical than in my younger years. His stories of being in the business for so many years, many of them at a long -defunct local hardware chain, plus his work at building the business in the store I worked at, from the time the Company opened it up, until his retirement some 14 years later. He was a damn hard, hands on Worker and Manager, and deserves every moment of his retirement.

    I think my first thought when I read the OP, was that the gift giving to the Supes/Mgrs was expected by the Supes/Mgrs, and especially in a Big Box scenario, from what I read here of how the employees of such retailers are treated by corp and management, it just seems like adding insult to injury expecting the "lowly", often minimum wage or not much better, employees to be compelled to buy or chip in for a gift for the boss. If anything, corp should be generous enough to supply store management with a decently generous check, to be used to buy gift cards, or whatever, for the employees.

    A buddy of mine works in the local warehouse of a major retailer, that several years back finally comepletely dropped the name of the local retailer with a long, long history in my area that they had bought out, after a few years of combining both names. He's worked there for, I believe, around 11 or 12 years now.

    He's talked to me over the years, about how much less they get from corp each Holiday Season. As I recall, they each used to get a half-ways decent bonus check. Nowadays, it's more like one check going to his Supervisor, who thinks it's generous to apply it to remodeling the break room unnecessarily. The Employees might get donuts, or a cake, or a $5.00 Starbucks Card. Meanwhile for running the place so efficiently, the Supe (who drives a Jag--my buddy makes it a point to always bring that up ) gets a decent bonus check of her own.


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    • #17
      We always used to take up a collection for our employers.
      It has always been voluntary, but, yes, there has always been a certain amount of pressure to give.

      Now, our boss has always been very generous with bonuses to us, so it wasn't a huge problem.
      The thing is, anything they would want, they can go out and buy. It always seemed like such a waste.

      Two years ago, we came up with an alternate plan.
      That year, we had lost 2 very well liked, and long time employees to cancer.

      That Christmas, we decided that, from then on, we would take up a collection, but instead of buying our employers something they probably didn't need nor want, a memorial bursary was set up honouring the deceased employees, and a donation was made to it in our employers' names.

      The money is now awarded annually to a deserving employee who is furthering their education.

      Now, instead of collecting for our employers, we are collecting donations to the memorial of our friends, and it's all strictly voluntary, as always.
      Point to Ponder:

      Is it considered irony when someone on an internet forum makes a post that can be considered to look like it was written by a 3rd grade dropout, and they are poking fun of the fact that another person couldn't spell?

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      • #18
        I lean toward no on this.

        First of all, why does the boss (who's already getting paid more than anyone else) get the gifts from the employees? If there's going to be a gift exchange, everyone should contribute and still get something in return.

        Even if there is a gift exchange, I still don't think anyone should be preasured to give. You don't have to give a gift, but that also means no one is obligated to get you anything. Personally, I think gift giving is overrated for reasons Sheldon Cooper stated in an episode of the Big Bang Theory, but that's just my opinion.

        Now if the boss is exceptional or a good friend (like in Mongo's case), then yeah, I can see that, but it's a personal choice. No one should be pressured to give their money back to their boss. It's just not cool.

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        • #19
          Originally posted by boringscreenname View Post
          I've never been under any pressure to buy my boss a gift, and I don't feel obligated because they sure in the hell don't give us anything at Christmas.
          Same here. It's nice to get a gift from the boss this time of year. However, after seeing what he's done when we get him something...we're not doing it. The last time, we got him a gift card, and a bottle of wine. Nice of us, right? Wrong. As I'm doing up the year-end expense reports, anyone want to guess what I found? That's right--the bastard wrote off *our* gift...as a business expense Let me repeat that--he not only got a somewhat-expensive bottle of wine and gift card, but somehow managed to get back the cash that *we* spent for it. How the fuck does that work?

          Should mention too, that this is the same guy who has managed to keep our pay frozen, fucked with our benefits...and drives a car that cost more than my house

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          • #20
            Originally posted by protege View Post
            As I'm doing up the year-end expense reports, anyone want to guess what I found? That's right--the bastard wrote off *our* gift...as a business expense Let me repeat that--he not only got a somewhat-expensive bottle of wine and gift card, but somehow managed to get back the cash that *we* spent for it. How the fuck does that work?
            I'm thinking that if I found out that my boss had managed to claim something that was a gift off on his taxes somehow, I'd be reporting that bastard for fraud so fast it would make your head spin.

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            • #21
              There's not really much I could have done about it. He's not only several links up the food chain, but also good friends with the owner of the company. Since I wouldn't be able to prove otherwise, it would be just his word against mine...especially since all of his financial reports are kept under lock and key.

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              • #22
                I usually stay away from giving gifts to supervisors and bosses unless I really like and/or respect my boss. I've never had a problem (thankfully) with being bullied into giving gifts to the bosses and supervisors.
                There are no stupid questions, just stupid people...

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                • #23
                  It's a big thing where I work. I don't know why.

                  And then when it came to a gift for our manager (whom I have zero respect for and have bashed several times on CS) I was like, are you kidding me? Sure, I signed the card they bought for him wishing him Happy Holidays, but no way was I giving up any cash for a gift for him.

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