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Dont think this has been brought up yet. I myself am pro choice, but I find myself a little perturbed at this. While I feel for the family, losing both babies, why did they wait so long to abort the unhealthy one? Why abort when it's only a probability not a certainty that the one with the heart defect might not survive, and if they did survive, would probably need surgery to correct the defect?
I guess the part that makes me uncomfortable is that the decision to abort only arises when they discover the baby isn't perfect. They've chosen to keep the baby, but suddenly it's all going to be too much so lets just get rid of it. (I don't know how to word it that doesn't sound harsh, I apologise) ..
Yes they are facing the probability that their baby is going to be born sick, might not even survive.. but they didn't give it a chance! Here in Australia there wouldn't have been a financial burden I guarantee it.. just an emotional one, facing surgeries etc. They had to know there was going to be some risk to the healthy fetus, so why risk it? I guess I would have rolled the dice and taken my chances.. having to abort this late in the pregnancy would have been just as devastating as having the baby pass away not long after birth, so why not take the chance?
I guess I see this opening a floodgate, and where do we draw the line? Babies with serious medical conditions, to babies of the "wrong" gender.. (I heard a report earlier this year of a couple terminating a pregnancy because it was a boy when they wanted a girl!! and that was after IVF!)
I'm sorry if I'm coming across as uncaring or self righteous. I never thought I'd be making a post like this as I am pro choice.. but I think there should be limits.. aborting a fetus within the first 10 weeks or so, before it's had a chance to really form into any kind of being, (at least in my eyes) because it was unplanned, unexpected etc I understand.. mistakes happen.. but at 32 weeks, this fetus could have survived outside the womb, even for a little while... where do we draw the line? I understand late term abortions happen when there is a health risk to the mother.. but to have one because the baby is going to be a huge inconvenience... I find myself questioning my beliefs..
Again I am very pro choice, this case has just thrown me for a loop, and I hope to never be in their shoes!! I have discussed this with family members who are also pro choice, and we are all a little mixed about it.. so I was just hoping to get others opinions.
Dont think this has been brought up yet. I myself am pro choice, but I find myself a little perturbed at this. While I feel for the family, losing both babies, why did they wait so long to abort the unhealthy one? Why abort when it's only a probability not a certainty that the one with the heart defect might not survive, and if they did survive, would probably need surgery to correct the defect?
I guess the part that makes me uncomfortable is that the decision to abort only arises when they discover the baby isn't perfect. They've chosen to keep the baby, but suddenly it's all going to be too much so lets just get rid of it. (I don't know how to word it that doesn't sound harsh, I apologise) ..
Yes they are facing the probability that their baby is going to be born sick, might not even survive.. but they didn't give it a chance! Here in Australia there wouldn't have been a financial burden I guarantee it.. just an emotional one, facing surgeries etc. They had to know there was going to be some risk to the healthy fetus, so why risk it? I guess I would have rolled the dice and taken my chances.. having to abort this late in the pregnancy would have been just as devastating as having the baby pass away not long after birth, so why not take the chance?
I guess I see this opening a floodgate, and where do we draw the line? Babies with serious medical conditions, to babies of the "wrong" gender.. (I heard a report earlier this year of a couple terminating a pregnancy because it was a boy when they wanted a girl!! and that was after IVF!)
I'm sorry if I'm coming across as uncaring or self righteous. I never thought I'd be making a post like this as I am pro choice.. but I think there should be limits.. aborting a fetus within the first 10 weeks or so, before it's had a chance to really form into any kind of being, (at least in my eyes) because it was unplanned, unexpected etc I understand.. mistakes happen.. but at 32 weeks, this fetus could have survived outside the womb, even for a little while... where do we draw the line? I understand late term abortions happen when there is a health risk to the mother.. but to have one because the baby is going to be a huge inconvenience... I find myself questioning my beliefs..
Again I am very pro choice, this case has just thrown me for a loop, and I hope to never be in their shoes!! I have discussed this with family members who are also pro choice, and we are all a little mixed about it.. so I was just hoping to get others opinions.
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