Originally posted by Greenday
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That's not what's being said. This fight was being advertised. Other kids knew about it. The bullied kid knew it was going to happen. He didn't want it. He obviously didn't feel confident in his ability to walk away from the fight if it got started, so he brought a deterrent. He made his deterrent known. He went out of his way to make sure his deterrent wouldn't be used by deliberately changing his routine. The bully followed and initiated the fight. To which the kid...tried to get away again. But he was prevented so brought out his deterrent.
What's being said is that as a last option scenario, we find ourselves understanding the kid's position.
In your example, you're indicating one hit as a trigger point. That would be an overkill response. Which would not sit well. That's saying "If he hits me one more time, I'll make sure he can't again permanently" not "I honestly think he might kill me today if I can't prevent running into him after school".
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