I just don't even know what to say about stuff like this anymore...

[SkullKing]

Then you read the OP differently than I did.

I meant OP as original poster rather than Original post.

Jaden expressed in the second post, that time was taken to find out who they were, but didn´t find anything at all, an so didn´t think that it could bring any benefit to report it.

Not reporting because you do not care and because you honest think it is useless and will bring no good are two different things.

Once presented with the possibility that it could bring some good, even if it is a long shot and we don´t know how exactly, Jaden reported it.

[Jaden]

Dude. I didn't know what the best thing was to do in the situation because why the fuck would I report something when I don't know who was involved? When people pointed out that there were good reasons to report it anyways, I did. Everybody has turned a blind eye to an injustice before, and that sucks, but I didn't even do that. I posted about it here because it bothered me so much, and then I reported it. I wasn't doing it to be a "hero" nor did I make this post to look good or anything. Nobody even knows who I am.

But sure, let's make me the bad guy, why not?

[HYHYBT]

It never made sense to me how people whose partner cheats on them often seem to be more angry at the third party than at their partner. I mean, that other guy or girl owes them *nothing* - no loyalty, no help, no whatever - but their *partner* does. He or she is the one who committed the betrayal, not the person they did it with. What's up with that?

Both are to blame, unless one didn't know the other was already taken.

[siead_lietrathua]

Both are to blame, unless one didn't know the other was already taken.

i can't remember where i heard this one but to paraphrase badly
"it's not up to the rest of the world to avoid sleeping with your partner. it's up to your partner to not sleep with them if you've agreed to monogamy"

[Andara Bledin]

While it is true that the partner deserves the vast majority of the blame, I've known people who specifically chase people who are married or in relationships, and they're not absolved of responsibility just because the person they went after was also a jerk.