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I'll admit that there are some good pointers in that article, particularly the ones about not giving your labor and sick newborn horror stories to new parents, etc, however, it's the first two points that kind of have me going
I know that 16 years ago when my first nephew was born, the hospital had a rule that anyone wanting to hold him had to scrub and wear a special gown over their clothes, at least for the first day or so. I guess it's the sanitizer comment in this one that I find odd; isn't hand sanitizer toxic when ingested? What if residue from it where to somehow get on the baby's hands, which then enter its mouth?
A ton of infections? So now two-year olds are viewed as little walking viruses? Is an infant really in that much danger of getting sick from a toddler? And as far as being delicate, I see no problem with bringing a toddler to see a new baby, so long as said toddler's parents keep an eye on it and make sure it doesn't try to handle the little one.
I can't speak with much experience, since I'm not a parent, but the article just struck me as fueling the paranoia about germs and such. Am I just being naive, or does it seem a little over-the-top?
I'll admit that there are some good pointers in that article, particularly the ones about not giving your labor and sick newborn horror stories to new parents, etc, however, it's the first two points that kind of have me going
Don't Forget to Sanitize
Maybe you just washed up before entering the room. Maybe you're a believer in the immune-boosting power of everyday germs. You know what? It doesn't matter.
Instead: Hightail it to the nearest sink or sanitizer pump and make the new parents comfortable that you're clean as a whistle before cuddling their new addition.
Maybe you just washed up before entering the room. Maybe you're a believer in the immune-boosting power of everyday germs. You know what? It doesn't matter.
Instead: Hightail it to the nearest sink or sanitizer pump and make the new parents comfortable that you're clean as a whistle before cuddling their new addition.
Don't Bring Your Toddler
Does your two-year-old just LOVE babies? Yep, most of them do. But remember that infants are delicate, and toddlers can be carriers for a ton of infections -- particularly if they're attending day care or preschool.
Instead: Plan for newborn encounters and play it safe by teaching your tot a hands-off approach. You don't want to be responsible for baby's first cold (or mommy's first tantrum).
Does your two-year-old just LOVE babies? Yep, most of them do. But remember that infants are delicate, and toddlers can be carriers for a ton of infections -- particularly if they're attending day care or preschool.
Instead: Plan for newborn encounters and play it safe by teaching your tot a hands-off approach. You don't want to be responsible for baby's first cold (or mommy's first tantrum).
I can't speak with much experience, since I'm not a parent, but the article just struck me as fueling the paranoia about germs and such. Am I just being naive, or does it seem a little over-the-top?
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