This was not a main part of Reddit or any advice animal meme image page or even a thread about a nasty end to a dating related reddit, so it came out of the blue.
Someone posted that they had been sexually assaulted in their sleep (the act woke them up) by someone whom the OP had considered a friend up until that point and s/he was staying over at his or her place (neither gender was stated but I am assuming the assaulter to be male).
My first and I assumed only post was contact the local police and as he was military the MP's too. Someone questioned the circumstances for the sleep over, different rooms or him on a couch and he sneaks in for a feel, the OP said it was fingers used, or did she have a small apartment and he ended up sharing the bed and got 'mixed signals'
to which I replied
currently two people on Reddit seem to think that being in the same bed, it is an OK thing to do.
Although it's only 2 people on Reddit, the sub is small so that ends up being a larger percentage and worrisome.
Tempted to call em out on it, but I thought I would post here instead.
EDIT: re read OP's text Army guy was male.
EDIT: I found out I omitted the fact it was in down votes not actual replies saying anything of the kind, but down voting "Do not sexually assault a sleeping person" says to me that you are ok with a sleeping person being sexually assaulted and worse you might be the kind that would.
And it now rests at -3 so even more rapey redditors yay
Someone posted that they had been sexually assaulted in their sleep (the act woke them up) by someone whom the OP had considered a friend up until that point and s/he was staying over at his or her place (neither gender was stated but I am assuming the assaulter to be male).
My first and I assumed only post was contact the local police and as he was military the MP's too. Someone questioned the circumstances for the sleep over, different rooms or him on a couch and he sneaks in for a feel, the OP said it was fingers used, or did she have a small apartment and he ended up sharing the bed and got 'mixed signals'
to which I replied
Although radically different, the outcome is still the same, if you have no alternate sleeping arrangements (I have seen some [redacted] apartment vlogs and they are shoe boxes) being in the same bed as another person does not grant consent, more so if the other person is asleep at the time.
Although it's only 2 people on Reddit, the sub is small so that ends up being a larger percentage and worrisome.
Tempted to call em out on it, but I thought I would post here instead.
EDIT: re read OP's text Army guy was male.
EDIT: I found out I omitted the fact it was in down votes not actual replies saying anything of the kind, but down voting "Do not sexually assault a sleeping person" says to me that you are ok with a sleeping person being sexually assaulted and worse you might be the kind that would.
And it now rests at -3 so even more rapey redditors yay
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