You have a very valid point in that pets shouldn't be treated as if they were human when they are not. You are also not "weird" for not liking animals, that is your preferences. I love cats but am not fond of dogs. However, whats wrong with giving respect, love and care to a pet as IF it was family? Owners have a responsibility to their pets to fulfill those needs. A pet isn't for showing off, so if you're not going to respect it as even a quasi-member of the household, why have it in the first place?
You can still treat an animal as family while still recognizing that yes, they are a completely different species with their own needs. Isn't part of the bond of family (and friendship too) fulfilling the needs of others sometimes? Humans are not the only creatues who have beneficial relationships with each other. Happens in nature all the time! Just because they come from a different branch of biology doesn't mean it can't be made to work.
I have 2 cats, but one is older and I share sort of a spiritual connection with her, so to speak. To me, she is family. I talk to her as if she were human (my whole family does that with our pets), but I do realize, that yes, she is a cat. She has different needs, wants, and attention spans than humans. However, in my mind, she is no less a family member to me. I know she's a cat, she knows I'm a human. That doesn't get in our way of having a healthy relationship with each other.
You can still treat an animal as family while still recognizing that yes, they are a completely different species with their own needs. Isn't part of the bond of family (and friendship too) fulfilling the needs of others sometimes? Humans are not the only creatues who have beneficial relationships with each other. Happens in nature all the time! Just because they come from a different branch of biology doesn't mean it can't be made to work.
I have 2 cats, but one is older and I share sort of a spiritual connection with her, so to speak. To me, she is family. I talk to her as if she were human (my whole family does that with our pets), but I do realize, that yes, she is a cat. She has different needs, wants, and attention spans than humans. However, in my mind, she is no less a family member to me. I know she's a cat, she knows I'm a human. That doesn't get in our way of having a healthy relationship with each other.
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