Things I hate

[Nyoibo]

No, I'm not witty.

1. That I somehow always get fucked over because of someone elses actions.
2. That no matter what I do there always seems to be someone else doing it faster better and more sucessfully than me.
3. That I've heard "I keep forgetting you're a guy" more times than I can count from women.
4. That even though I realised I'm getting used by people I know I'm actually ok with it because it still makes me feel they want me for something.
5. that I've actually written all this down.
6. I've fucking run out of rum.

[lordlundar]

2. That no matter what I do there always seems to be someone else doing it faster better and more sucessfully than me.

That's just how things are. You will never be the penultimate. Just suck it up and keep trying to improve.

3. That I've heard "I keep forgetting you're a guy" more times than I can count from women.

Wait. That's a bad thing? If that happens, it means women are comfortable around you. Sounds like a plus to me.

4. That even though I realised I'm getting used by people I know I'm actually ok with it because it still makes me feel they want me for something.

But what's your self worth? If you feel you can be used to be needed, you might want to work on your self esteem.

[DrFaroohk]

1. That I somehow always get fucked over because of someone elses actions.

Ah yes, I hate it when that happens. You spend your whole childhood learning that you have to take responsibility for your own actions, and then when you get that figured out you find out you gotta cover everyone else's shit too. Like when my neighbor smashed my windshield - that was obviously my fault, as I shouldn't have been living there!

How does it usually happen to you?

[Nyoibo]

Usually shit happens between friends and I end up dealing with the fallout and getting screwed over.

[tabbyblack13]

6. I've fucking run out of rum.

That's a bad day no matter what!

As for the one being caught in the fallout, that sucks! I've been caught in the middle of friends breaking up or in a fight and hardly ever ends well. There's times that I'm ready to tell all of them to be adults or I'm gone. Being fucked over because of someone's actions happens a lot to me. The issue I have is I let people walk all over me because I'm too nice.

[guywithashovel]

3. That I've heard "I keep forgetting you're a guy" more times than I can count from women.

On a similar note, I'm sick of always attracting the "spoken for" women. I cannot tell you how many times I have met a nice girl who is affable and seems to really like me and enjoy my company---only to shortly thereafter find out that she is either in a relationship or married and was just being friendly with me. I have mentioned this before on this board, but it's worth mentioning again, but it has happened more times than I can count. Each time, I get my hopes up, thinking that maybe something will come of it, and then during conversation she'll casually mention her boyfriend or husband, and I'll be right back to square one again.

Evidently, I'm the "friend" guy.

[powerboy]

On a similar note, I'm sick of always attracting the "spoken for" women.

~snip~

Evidently, I'm the "friend" guy.

I am that and I hate that. I hate it when they say that "if I was single, I would date you" But your not single. this one lady on my group, says that. But when she says it, you can tell that she actually means it.

[Nyoibo]

Wait. That's a bad thing? If that happens, it means women are comfortable around you. Sounds like a plus to me.

It's really not, trust me

I am that and I hate that. I hate it when they say that "if I was single, I would date you"

I've been told that, it was bullshit, when she was single she had no interest in me what so ever.

[gremcint]

6. I've fucking run out of rum.

Why is the rum always gone?

[powerboy]

I've been told that, it was bullshit, when she was single she had no interest in me what so ever.

Yes exactly.

[DesignFox]

Why is the rum always gone?

'Cause I drank it all.