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So I visit with my daughter every other weekend. My last visit though fell on her little brother's birthday so it didn't happen. Now sometimes her guardian will then let me come visit on an off weekend. This time not a word and she didn't return my calls so I had to figure that I would just have to see her this weekend our next scheduled visit.
I call her yesterday afternoon because she insists that I always call her the day before a visit to firm up plans. She finally calls me back around 10 at night apparently surprised because they already made plans because apparently last weekend should have been my visit, in her mind she just switched my weekends because of the party, and they already have plans for today so I am SOL.
This kind of stuff pisses me off. Legally there is nothing I can do as the custody paperwork says that all my visits have to be supervised, no I don't know why, and that she has final say on how and when my visits happen.
The only way I could change this would be a lengthy court battle and I will be damned if I ever put my little girl through that I would rather never get to see her again than make her suffer one iota of unhappiness. So I have to be quiet and put up with it. At this point it has been almost a month since my last visit and I am just frustrated.
The whole thing is so screwed up.
I call her yesterday afternoon because she insists that I always call her the day before a visit to firm up plans. She finally calls me back around 10 at night apparently surprised because they already made plans because apparently last weekend should have been my visit, in her mind she just switched my weekends because of the party, and they already have plans for today so I am SOL.
This kind of stuff pisses me off. Legally there is nothing I can do as the custody paperwork says that all my visits have to be supervised, no I don't know why, and that she has final say on how and when my visits happen.
The only way I could change this would be a lengthy court battle and I will be damned if I ever put my little girl through that I would rather never get to see her again than make her suffer one iota of unhappiness. So I have to be quiet and put up with it. At this point it has been almost a month since my last visit and I am just frustrated.
The whole thing is so screwed up.