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    I know this is the things I hate section but I didn't know where else to put this...

    I am thankful as fuck that my mother is leaving Canada after a SIX week visit!

    It was all my fault really, she guilted and manipulated me into believing she was actually sick and I was afraid that I wouldn't see her alive again. Now that she's been here I can see she was nothing but a guilt tripping, selfish liar, that she has been all my life. As I hadn't seen her in nearly two years I was starting to really worry that her health was rapidly deteriorating because...well thats what she made it out to be. Thats why her stay was so long and no a two-three week trip like I suggested when it was first brought up. She made this out to be her last possible trip.

    She is not dying, she is not even sick (apart from high blood pressure) but she is a hypochondriac and an attention seeker intent on making the world revolve around her. Her most dramatic act calling me and stating "somethings happened to me" (inferring to her health during the call, so I think she's fallen or is having a bad turn) when I was 20 minutes car ride away, making me drive manically back to the mall I dropped her off at only to find the "something" she wouldn't elaborate on during the phone call was a man telling her she looked cute.

    Thank fuck I am rid of her as of 6pm Wednesday and wont have to deal with her shit for at least a year besides a weekly one hour phone call. No wonder my brother hasn't called her entire trip, he is dreading her return as much as I am excited by it. I am pretty angry with myself that I fell for her bullshit ONCE AGAIN!!!!

    I love her deep down, but I am totally reminded why I don't like her as a person and why I live on the other side of the world. Even if I didn't have K I would have made England work. Shes already talking about her next trip here....that wont be for another 3 years if I have anything to do with it.
    I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ - Gandhi

  • #2
    So today's the day? Congratulations.

    Six weeks is a long time to spend with such a manipulative person. You've earned something nice. Treat yourself to something.

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    • #3
      we dropped her off at the airport at 3pm, she insisted on being dropped off so we could get immigration stuff done (my tax number and ID) in the afternoon, she then threw a huge tantrum when we actually tried to leave to do that stuff.....

      apprently 6 weeks of making her the centre of attention, spending money on her and trying to fucking bond can be wiped out because I wont buy her a final starbucks and pay $20 in parking after driving 90 minutes to the airport.....

      her loss, im about to go on a cleaning bindge because she left her room an absolute pigsty. My brother has to deal with her for the next year so Im happy.
      I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ - Gandhi

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      • #4
        My mom lives in the same town but feels my stairs at my apartment are a safety hazard so refuses to visit.

        I can't imagine having her stay over *shudders* I admire your strength.
        Jack Faire
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        • #5
          Six Weeks??!!! I barely tolerate my own mother for 6 days.
          If I can't bitch, I'll explode- blas87

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          • #6
            Originally posted by kiwi View Post
            she then threw a huge tantrum when we actually tried to leave to do that stuff.....

            .

            A....tantrum???

            How old *is* this woman?

            You poor, poor thing. We need a hug smiley over here.

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            • #7
              *hugs* I got guilted into a month+ visit to the other coast to see the parents... *sighs*

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              • #8
                I remember going home to visit my family for 10 days just a few months after I moved down to Texas. BIG MISTAKE. 10 days was way too long. My mom laid into me about something the day after I arrived. I was ready to leave that night I was so upset. I can't imagine her coming to see me for six weeks.

                Someone who lies about a serious illness is a real piece of work, in my opinion. Can you tell her, next time she asks to visit you or brings up some mysterious "illness" that you have no intent on her visiting again since she lied to you?

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                • #9
                  *'accidentally' exposing said mom to an illness that while inconvenient won't harm her*

                  Sorry mom just working to make you an honest person just took the path of least resistance.
                  Jack Faire
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                  • #10
                    Wait a minute, Kiwi, what was my mother doing up at...Oh my god it's true! You're my long lost *insert relations from the mother here*!

                    Come and your long lost brother a big hug!
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