People In Relationships Are Lame

[Greenday]

I guess I'm going to be lame during my Spring Break and next school year with every other weekend.

If your friend doesn't get to see her bf during the week, why get mad at her for wanting to spend those two days out of seven with him? I know I would be pretty pissed if my friends called me lame for wanting to be with my Significant Other when I can see them at any day of the week.

They see each other every single day. They just choose to hang out on the weekends instead of during the week. I know them both well. I know they live a couple hundred feet from each other and both are free every single night from classes.

Something no one seems to notice, I'm not complaining about people who literally are unable to see each other during the week. My friend's don't work night shifts like you do, blas, or else I'd be understanding. My friend's live on campus and don't have to commute to class, taking up all their time, unlike you, Cat.

AdminAssistant, if it's the weekend, I'd rather get drunk than laid if I'm single and have a choice. Getting drunk during the week has negative effects on me the next day, hampering my performance in class or lab. Sex does NOT.

So go ahead and reread stuff. People who actively make the decision to not spend time with their SO when they have the time during the week, then blow off their friends who they CANNOT see during the week, are LAME AS HELL.

[McDreidel09]

Well, then don't invite her if you already know the answer. If she says something about it, then tell her that she always turns you down anyway, so what's the point?

It may sound mean and heartless, but maybe it will get the point across.

[Cat]

Sorry, Green....my ire was not at you.....just saw myself in the tread a bit too much, given some recent events in my life.

Yeah, I had friends who were an on campus couple.....they only saw each other....sucked for them when they broke up and the rest of the group had moved on to other things.

[AdminAssistant]

AdminAssistant, if it's the weekend, I'd rather get drunk than laid if I'm single and have a choice. Getting drunk during the week has negative effects on me the next day, hampering my performance in class or lab. Sex does NOT.

The SO was here a couple of weeks ago. He arrived on Thursday night and I had to teach Friday morning. My teaching was definitely hampered, since I, y'know, didn't get much sleep the night before.

I mean, I get what your saying, but I agree with McD. At this point, just stop asking her.

[Nyoibo]

The only reason I hate people in relationships is because I'm the only one not in one.

[blas87]

I don't mean to be overly harsh on you yourself Greenday. You know I think highly of you.

It does rub me the wrong way to hear statements like that, though, because I already have to deal with my bf's stupid single friends always whining to him because he spends most weekends with me and they want him to come 90 miles to go see them and spend the weekend with them getting trashed and spending Saturday hungover, then getting trashed again. Some of them are so desperate that they WILL come and get him AND take him back (90 miles both ways, then there and back again) because sure they miss him, but they also just cannot find anything better to do with their free time.

I also have to deal with his stupid friends and some of their statements. I know he loves me and wouldn't leave me because of what a friend said, but why is it that only guys seem to be the ones to flap their gums and go "Don't you wish you stayed single?!" or "Don't you miss being single?" Fuck off, douchebags.

[linguist]

They see each other every single day. They just choose to hang out on the weekends instead of during the week. I know them both well. I know they live a couple hundred feet from each other and both are free every single night from classes.

there's a difference between seeing each other and being able to spend good, quality time together. unless you spend every minute of every day with both of them, how do you know how much quality time they're getting?

they live near each other. so what? doesn't mean anything. i live 2 blocks from my parents and only get to see them a couple of times a month because life keeps me busy.

they're free from classes at night? does that mean they don't have homework or studying to do? it sounds to me like they've chosen to be responsible students, concentrating on their studies during the week and setting aside time for each other on the weekends. i certainly wouldn't fault them for that.

[Giggle Goose]

Hell I am bloody single and not a fan of the bar scene. I won't even go to a bar unless they also serve food and can make a mean burger.

Same here! And guess where I met the bf? Not at a bar, that's for darn sure!

Would you rather get drunk or get laid?

I can't have both?

Well, then don't invite her if you already know the answer. If she says something about it, then tell her that she always turns you down anyway, so what's the point?

It may sound mean and heartless, but maybe it will get the point across.

I agree completely. If this person still wants your friendship, he/she will approach on their own if they're still interested in hanging out at all.

[AdminAssistant]

I can't have both?

Depends on the guy One guy I dated, not at all. Worst case of whiskey dick, ever.

[Greenday]

Depends on the guy One guy I dated, not at all. Worst case of whiskey dick, ever.

My roommate brought some girl back to our room while I was drunk and trying to sleep and attempted to lose his virginity while he was also drunk. Since I was only in my boxers and couldn't sleep in the living room where the party was going on, I just had to lay facing the wall. Luckily it didn't last long since I kept hearing her say, "It's not hard enough..." I had to give him a nice man-to-man talk the next day.

[Giggle Goose]

Luckily it didn't last long since I kept hearing her say, "It's not hard enough..." I had to give him a nice man-to-man talk the next day.

Ouch! Sucks to be that guy!