If You Plan On Gossipping, Get Your Story Right!

[McDreidel09]

Teehee. I've heard more crap about me.

That I cheated on some boyfriends. Um. Nope. As much as you want to paint me as the bad guy, I'm not. There are other reasons I broke up with the boyfriends and sex had nothing to do with it in any way,shape,or form.

That I'm a bitch...oh wait...that's true

[Plaidman]

Some somehow get the expression I'm made of money. Want jewery. Trips to out of state (sans me of course. That would be a wasteful trip). Clothes. It's amazing how quickly money can go bye bye since I get confused. Not even a thanks.

[McDreidel09]

I've also heard that I am some ungrateful person who just asks for things. Funny. I hate when people pay for me. I don't ask for things. Hell, I keep quiet about it. As for the ungrateful part, I've been told many times to stop saying thank you because I said it so many times.

People have been asking me about my Seattle trip and why my host wasn't there. There has been talk about many things that were going on. The truth is: my host had to work and the trip was going to take a loooong time. We didn't get back until the early morning and my host had to be at work at 9 pm, while we were still on the road. That they understood. Glad I could clarify.

It's truly mind boggling what people think of me. I may be a bitch, but I know when to turn it off. Mainly,I'm a bitch when it comes to reality checks and I couldn't tell you how many times people have thanked me for it after they stopped being mad.

[SteverinoNY!]

People often misconstrue a reality check and being told about things they need to fix as being a bitch or being a shit head. I know I would rather have it where people are honest and straight forward with me.

One thing I despise are people who spread rumors and gossip without getting the story right.

I'll take the criticism of someone who has a problem with me at face value when they say it to my face. People who have a problem with me but dont come right to me and address it are not people I want to associate with. I've cut out many a person from my life because they can't muster up the cajones to speak to me personally about the problems that they have.

[AdminAssistant]

And....moving on.

I'm really lucky that I'm friends with most of the people in my department, we all get along, and there's no malicious gossip. Quite a few of my friends are in history, and it's just bloodthirsty. Gah. I couldn't do it.

[McDreidel09]

Yeah Admin. I'm pretty lucky that my friends don't do the malicious gossiping also. Although, so far, in my major, I have not been able to fit in with people. The people in the English club are a bit snooty and stuck up and won't give me the time of day.

I hope the people in Education are much better.