I don't think he's a bad person at all.
I have read his explanations for everything and I understand.
What I see, though, is a guy who seems to feel he deserves some kind of medal for doing what he does, as if it's some magnificent thing.
It really isn't.
He seems to think, just because he sticks around and doesn't bail, even though he really isn't all that into his family, that makes him special because of the huge sacrifice it is for him.
Yeah, it's great that he sticks around and supports children who aren't his, and even supports the child who is his, but he didn't even want.
The problem I see is that he resents the hell out of every moment he spends with his family, and he resents the hell out of being forced to take a job to support them. It's quite obvious from all that he has posted on this board.
It's probably also quite obvious to his family.
We aren't there, so we don't know.
I do know that I have seen the effects on children who have come from homes where it was obvious that they were a burden and a necessary evil to be dealt with and tolerated.
I don't know Dr Fahrook, nor his family, so I can only hope that all the venting he does on this board is his way of coping and getting it out, and that in reality, his family doesn't realize all the nasty feelings he harbours for them.
I don't know, though:
If he's that uninvolved, how could the children not sense that they are an intrusion and inconvenience in his life?
Perhaps the reason people keep "groaning on" about it is because he started this whole thread almost as if to brag about the fact that he can act like an obnoxious jerk at times.
Why get pissy with people just because they seem to be agreeing with his own assessment of things?
I have read his explanations for everything and I understand.
What I see, though, is a guy who seems to feel he deserves some kind of medal for doing what he does, as if it's some magnificent thing.
It really isn't.
He seems to think, just because he sticks around and doesn't bail, even though he really isn't all that into his family, that makes him special because of the huge sacrifice it is for him.
Yeah, it's great that he sticks around and supports children who aren't his, and even supports the child who is his, but he didn't even want.
The problem I see is that he resents the hell out of every moment he spends with his family, and he resents the hell out of being forced to take a job to support them. It's quite obvious from all that he has posted on this board.
It's probably also quite obvious to his family.
We aren't there, so we don't know.
I do know that I have seen the effects on children who have come from homes where it was obvious that they were a burden and a necessary evil to be dealt with and tolerated.
I don't know Dr Fahrook, nor his family, so I can only hope that all the venting he does on this board is his way of coping and getting it out, and that in reality, his family doesn't realize all the nasty feelings he harbours for them.
I don't know, though:
I'm the most uninvolved parent of the all the kids at the school
Perhaps the reason people keep "groaning on" about it is because he started this whole thread almost as if to brag about the fact that he can act like an obnoxious jerk at times.
Nay, for no one is quite as sick and evil as I am. I AM the most obnoxious. I fanatasize about how great it'd be if I was in some accident and had no memory of my life or family at all. It'd be a brand new fresh start and I don't think anyone could fault me for just being like 'fuck off, i dont know you anymore'.
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