My Ex girlfriend

[insertNameHere]

It was SO HARD, not to post my facebook status as this yesterdaty

"I never thought I could hear a song that reminded me of the freaky slut formally known as (removed for some privacy) my loving girlfriend that wouldn't make me feel like crap that was until "jaron and the long road to love - pray for you" found me driving home when I started to think of her, If they could only add I pray you get an STD from that couple your sleeping with the song would be PERFECT."

Yes that is right within a month of breaking up with me it was confirmed that she was having sexual relations with a couple she meet. She got pissed at me for asking questions after she brought it up and mentioned it happened. I mean she never had done that before and when it was mentioned of a 3way she sounded disgusted at the thought. OH even more so when she mentioned another friend of hers knew a couple who were swingers and she said Who the fuck does that.

It makes me feel super to know that a month prior she was telling me how much she loved and missed me after our first breakup that she couldn't stand the thought of not having me around. Well now that she is screwing a couple I guess she is doing alright.

She also said before admitted that she couldn't lie to me that she wasn't seeing anyONE. To which point I realize that is true by captializing the ONE, since a couple is two. Although the guy buying lottery from me who was having a crappy day enjoyed this

customer: "I want a couple lottery tickets for the Mega Millions"
me: "Thats two right?"
customer: "would it be anything else?"
me: "if your my ex it would be 3 because she is sleeping with one right now"
custoemr: laughing "Holy shit I thought my life was fucked!"

Lol my comment just kinda slipped out glad nobody was offended, or at least I havn't been told by management that someone reported it.

Anyways, I really think she just told me to screw with my head, also to tell nobody which is why I love the internet I can vent and not feel like crap, get some opnions and not have all my friends knowing how wild my ex is, lol but her friend who is roommates with the couple is weirded the out it sounds like!

[Greenday]

My ex-girlfriend tells me stuff she shouldn't be telling me and the only reason I could imagine for telling me it is to make me jealous. But that's just not the kind of person she is. I don't know if she even has the ability to flat out lie.

People change. That's the only advice I can give you. My ex had a lot of strict rules when it came to sexual stuff. Now she's done shit (that she for unknown reason HAD to tell me about) that I would never have believed she would have done back then. It sucks but whatever. It's her life.

[insertNameHere]

She recently quit her job and is looking for a new one, im tempted to send the link to this opening i found while looking for jobs.


"Female actors needed for adult films. Shoot is 2 to 5 hours. No experience needed. Hair, make-up and clothing all are included and will be done by professional stylists. Pay is $2,500 - $5,000 a day to start. We are a well known and respected adult film company looking for some fresh new faces. Women of all shapes and sizes are needed. After first film is completed we can add you to our employee list and many many more film opportunities to come. Just looking for females willing to have fun, make a lot of money, and maybe start a new career. Please include multiple photos, contact asap"

[Racket_Man]

My Ex-Wife still wanted be "friends" and have "open/frank discussions" and share "information" after the breakup. in short she still wanted to be "friends" (after all we did have a 20 year "marriage" /23 year relationship * double snerk*) REAL Friends DO NOT do what she did to me under any circumstances.

Yeah right esp after all of the (IMO) wierd shit that happened that she was the instigator of. No I DO NOT want to know about her personal/intimate life and NO sheu will not get information about what is happening in my life. In the end she got what she wanted ie. away from ME and that is the way I want it to STAY.

[McDreidel09]

Sooo...insertnamehere, where did you find this ad and where can I sign up?

I kid. I kid. They wouldn't want me anyway.

I just have to say though, don't let her know it gets to you. She could be telling you this to make you jealous. Silver lining: She's not with you while doing this. I do have to ask though, what is wrong with being part of a threesome? They are pretty fun.

[blas87]

Why even give her the time of day? She doesn't deserve your attention, and that's all she really wants, as far as I can tell from reading this.

Plus, and I really don't mean this to be offensive or personal, but nobody likes to hear when people are still talking about their exes. It's one thing to talk about horrific dates or incidents or epic breakups, but it's a whole other ballpark when people cannot stop talking about their exes.

The same stories over and over tend to drive people crazy. It even drives some people to get really bitter and act bitter and bring others down.

*Note, I am not saying that the OP does this, just pointing out that some people end up very bitter after breakups and continual speaking of the relationship or the end of it doesn't do any good*

Please note that I am very sorry this happened to you and I am not trying to attack you or belittle you, just trying to help you. Hopefully you realize that once you ignore her, your life will be so much easier.

[insertNameHere]

I do have to ask though, what is wrong with being part of a threesome? They are pretty fun.

I have nothing wrong with the idea of a threesome, just the fact she didn't want to be with anyone but me then in under a month turns around and does that shit. Actually, that is when a reliable source found out about it putting it around a month. And that doesn't mean it was the first time it happened so it could have been much sooner.


Im really actually thinking about using that status because well, she really fucked me up. We broke up back around Thanksgiving, I was fine without her then she came back and let me know how much she missed me and within 3 months from coming back she was gone. We started talking to each other January of 09, made it official week after valinties day. The reason we broke up frist time was she had to much stress betwene seeing me, school, and work. Also, alot of other person stuff she had a big dark secret that she went to a physcoligst about, I actually had to guess waht it was because she wouldn't come out and tell me when we started talking again. Becasue it was something that was never told to me and never happened when i was present so really How was I supposed to pick up on it. Also had to deal iwth the fact in a month she was away from me she ended up screwing an ex twice because she hated herself so much she wanted to feel wanted. There is probably alot im leaving out but figured I would give some back story. When your 22 and 21 and just spent a year together, to me that is a significant amount of time.

[kibbles]

I'm a woman but I have to say that if someone wants to break up, fine, they shouldn't feel guilt because if someone doesn't want to be with someone than that's that.

But I hate woman who move on, then act as if their exes have no right to even look at them. I'm not talking about the crazy possessive exes. But woman or men who act uppity like that are such a turn off and are really sad pathetic excuses themselves.

[lupo pazzesco]

I'm a woman but I have to say that if someone wants to break up, fine, they shouldn't feel guilt because if someone doesn't want to be with someone than that's that.

But I hate woman who move on, then act as if their exes have no right to even look at them. I'm not talking about the crazy possessive exes. But woman or men who act uppity like that are such a turn off and are really sad pathetic excuses themselves.

Quoted for Truth. Ex-roomie was like that. Shunned everyone she ever broke up with because "I've grown and matured and moved on, I just can't handle dealing with YOU anymore." Oh yes, real mature. I will be honest. I've never had a boyfriend, too painfully shy and uncomfortable around the opposite sex for personal reasons. But I instinctively understand that some breakups are painful, even if it is amicable in a way. But treating people like they should cease existing only compounds the pain, and people who treat their exes like that should get a dose of their own medicine. Preferably from multiple sources. Being shunned and ignored because you had the temerity to dare to care about someone, only to find out it's not meant to be long-term wounds a person, and treating them like invisible garbage only adds more scars.

In regards to the OP...<Insert gagging here> Whatever makes you happy, fine, but don't, for the love of pizza, gloat about it to someone you used to sleep with. Kinda gives me the creepy crawlies...ick!!

Hmm...hope my rambling made sense. Kind of forgot to eat in the last 12 hours or so...I should probably go cook something.

[Red Panda]

Just because she is having sex with a person, or two, it doesn't actually mean she is emotionally vested with them, so she might not have been lying when she said she said she didn't want to be with anybody else, she just mean emotionally not sexually.

Theres also the possibility that she still wants to feel needed and this couple are fullfilling that need.

She could also just be a ho. Pick whatever choice ouy like

[insertNameHere]

Well I talked to her last week because I was having a shit day and just wanted to talk to someone who said they gave a shit about me. Lies, lol and got to find out some that I probably didn't want to know because I said it didn't take her long to move on after she broke up with me. She said well we were pretty much broken up when we were together.

I have come to terms with the fact she is a freaky slut, since I completely let it slip my mind that not even two weeks after she dumped me she fucked her ex the first time. Sure we were broken up but she came back to me and IDK i don't think it would be to much to ask that you actually admit what you did or tell me how it was ie either she tell me she loved it and just wanted someone different or it was a mistake and she fucking hated it. Either way if she would have just been a big girl and not had me play 20 questions to figure it out, it would have been easier to forgive and forget.

Actual, reason I'm posting is my mom is having a party and invited freaky slut and her mother. Don't have any problems with her mother coming but I don't like the idea of the freaky slut coming into my home even if I'm not here. If we can't be friends and I can't have a conversation with her then she got no fucking business coming around where I live. I have been told I need to play nice and not use the name freaky slut with my middle finger extended if I see her. I decided to tell my mom the shit that she did, and my mother thought I was joking/she was making it up just to make me jealous. Which had I said my one friend who my mother doesn't like had done that she would have been like "Doesn't suprise me".

[Fryk]

No. Just no. Screw that "Play nice" babble. Your mom wasn't playing nice when she invited your ex in the first place. I'd hole myself up in my room and skip out on the party.

[insertNameHere]

lol well it isn't a party in the sense you think, it like tupperware/mary K but with kitchen tools. The only reason i would make an appearance is to steal food. but its the principle that I live her and don't want her in my home

[Fryk]

In that case, I would make a point of pretending she didn't exist while there (in the event she tried to talk to you or anything).

[insertNameHere]

UPDATE:
I called her she didn't answer left a voicemail. She ended up contacting my mother to tell her she wasn't coming and that I am obsessive and verbally abusive. To which I respond, If I really was that way why would she have ever agreed to come out to the house in the first place with her being one who likes to meet on neutral grounds in situations like this. Now she is pissed I won't leave her alone and im like WTF I was leaving her alone and would have had my mother just fucking told her on second thought it would be best if you don't coem if you can't have a civl converstaion with my son.
Then my parents got on my ass about a bunch of shit how im irresponsbile and 25 and need to be making better decisions, comforting that they jumped on my ex's side and have no idea how old I am by about 3years.
I was forced to tell them everything at which point got them off my ass and thinking siginficantly less of my ex.


It really comes down I was concerned about her from all the shit she was telling me but I had no idea how to tell her that.

Bulimia ontop of all her news friends that she was going out drinking with on a regular basis and the random sex she mentioned to me really sounds like self destructive behavior, I just hope she tells her whole life to her therapist.