Don't blame me when your bf cheats on you

[DrFaroohk]

No no, its still wrong.

Once again, for the hundredth time you are making up these scenarios that have nothing to do with anything.

We're NOT TALKING ABOUT SOMEONE CHUMPING OUT HIS BEST FRIEND SO HE CAN FUCK HIS GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You can say something, and they just blatantly ignore it and make up their own thing. I could type in "I love my wife, but I hate beef jerky" and someone will come along and say "WHAT!? YOU HATE YOUR WIFE!?!?!?!?"

So anyway...me being a total stranger to you, sir, I have absolutely no, ZERO OBLIGATION to protect your relationship. It doesn't matter if I met your girl at a bar, and she said she was single, or she said "Yeah, I'm plaidman's wife." It matters not one bit, because I NEVER swore a sacred vow to not have sex with your wife.

I swore a vow to not have sex with anyone but MY wife, and SHE is the only person who has ANY right to bitch and complain if I sleep with your wife. And likewise for you - my wife has no business getting on your wife's case if we had sex. That's between you and your wife, and me and mine.

I have no obligation to uphold anyone else's relationship. If she was willing it's already fucked up, and whether or not I did anything, the relationship is fucked up.

The only exception to this is when it IS someone close to you who invades your life for the SOLE PURPOSE of invading your life. If my best friend reveals to me he's been in love with my wife for months, well, shit. It sucks, and I'll probably kill her, and I might not ever speak to him again, but I still don't see any reason to do anything to him about it.

If my best friend just decided "Hey, I feel like fucking a married woman. Hey, there's one." well then...

Oh wait. That's the part you're going to ignore because you realize I'm right and you have nothing you can say against it.

[Plaidman]

Thank you Greenday.

I really couldn't worded that better at all.

[Racket_Man]

Rumor has it that if a person cheats once, they'll cheat agian. I don't belive it myself, but I don't belive in alot of stuff.

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unfortuneately the rumor is true, both in my own experiance (not me doing the cheating) and observing others in my everyday surroundings.

[Greenday]

No no, its still wrong.

Once again, for the hundredth time you are making up these scenarios that have nothing to do with anything.

We're NOT TALKING ABOUT SOMEONE CHUMPING OUT HIS BEST FRIEND SO HE CAN FUCK HIS GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

Glad we are on the same page. You obviously didn't read my story. My best friend is the girl I like. I barely know her boyfriend besides that he is a loser and a mooch.

As I said, why would I trust someone with zero respect for others?

[Lace Neil Singer]

Back when I was an eighteen year old student, I met a guy in a bar. He chatted me up, then asked me out. I turned him down. Why? Cuz he was wearing a wedding ring. Yup, on the correct finger. I told him so, too. He replied, "Oh, but my marriage is practically over." -.-

In this situation, I didn't know this guy's wife, or indeed anything about her. She could well have been a total hag. But to my mind, I'm not about to go after a guy who's taken; who's to say he won't do the same to me one day? So I still turned him down.

From the other side, I've had a girl make a play for my fiance at a party. She waited til I went to the loo before she made her pass. My fiance told her to piss off. When I got back, I went over to her and told her in no uncertain terms to leave my fiance alone, before I knocked her teeth down her throat.

This girl knew that I and my fiance were together, yet she still made a play for him. I have every right to be angry at some slag who goes after an attached man. I wasn't angry with my fiance, cuz he turned her down and I trust him. To my mind, anyone who deliberately goes after a person in a relationship is a total slag and should share the blame for the affair, if there is one. If there isn't, then they are entirely to blame and should get a fucking life.

However, if they are unaware that their partner is attached, then it's entirely the attached person's fault. They're obviously a player and deserve a kick to the crotch.

[blas87]

Lace, I have lost count of how many times I have been out and about with my bf and friends, and my bf has stepped away to play pool or go to the bathroom and some lecherous fuck comes up to me and tries his game.

One of these days I swear I will take advantage of how slobbering drunk these idiots are and knock one backwards so hard into something so sharp, they'll learn a lesson. They have to be retarded in the first place to try and hit on a girl just because her bf isn't immediately around, second that my bf is a body builder and most of these twits that hit on me are closer to my weight and probably can't even win a fight against a June bug.

[muses_nightmare]

So anyway...me being a total stranger to you, sir, I have absolutely no, ZERO OBLIGATION to protect your relationship. It doesn't matter if I met your girl at a bar, and she said she was single, or she said "Yeah, I'm plaidman's wife." It matters not one bit, because I NEVER swore a sacred vow to not have sex with your wife.

As soon as someone says that they are married or with someone else, as soon as you know that for sure, their significant other has every right to be just as pissed off with you as with their spouse. I don't care if you're a stranger to them, and you just met them at a bar, once you know their with someone else you stop trying to hit on them.

[DrFaroohk]

I guess I just don't get it. I've had women cheat on me before, and I never ever got upset with the other guy, except when it was a "friend" who I thought I could trust. And even then - it's not like he came into my house and stole my guitar. It takes two to tango, and she was just as willing, unless you're going to say "well he was just so well spoken and good looking and he took advantage of her".....

If that argument actually holds any water, then women need to lose the right to vote, have jobs, or even leave the house without a man to escort her. But I know that women aren't that stupid, and most of that chalks up to a really, really lame excuse.

As for the guys who weren't friends, well, again...a relationship is something the people in it have to uphold. No one else. It's just plain retarded for people to take out their frustrations at their failing relationship on someone else who quite frankly didn't cause the problems. The problem was already there, even if it was buried under the surface.

[jackfaire]

If that argument actually holds any water, then women need to lose the right to vote, have jobs, or even leave the house without a man to escort her. But I know that women aren't that stupid, and most of that chalks up to a really, really lame excuse.
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I agree I had to stop reading a series of books because one character cheated on another character and it was okay because no one could have said no to the guy because, "He was so hot he exudes sex" and apparently that makes women stupid.

[Rantsylvania 6-5000]

As for the guys who weren't friends, well, again...a relationship is something the people in it have to uphold. No one else. It's just plain retarded for people to take out their frustrations at their failing relationship on someone else who quite frankly didn't cause the problems. The problem was already there, even if it was buried under the surface.

Just because a couple is having problems, that doesn't make it okay for someone to take advantage of the situation. Some problems can be fixed, but not if someone is deliberately getting in the way.

[Lace Neil Singer]

Exactly; if you know that a person is with someone, you stay away from them. Sure, you can tell them you like them and that if they split up, they know where to find you, but that's as far as it goes. Going after someone who's with someone is the lowest of the low, and makes you nothing but a disgusting slag, no matter what gender you are.

Sure, they're to blame too for cheating, but that doesn't absolve you since you knew full well that they were with someone, yet you went after them anyway.