Fat people

[guywithashovel]

Why? It's not your fault. It falls solely on how I look, which can't exactly change over night. Falls on my physically deformalities, which again, can't exactly change overnight. Even if I could, it's a very very good chance it'll revert since it's part of my genes. Falls lastely on my fianically problems, which since I can barely walk most days, lack of education, isn't going to change overnight ether. Even if I become super rich, super intelligent, and super phyiscally attractive, I still wouldn't be able to get past friend stage.

Somehow I doubt that my saying this is going to help much, but I have seen your pictures over on CS, and honestly, I don't think you look that bad. I mean, I don't swing that way, so it's hard for me to tell how hetero females see you, but honestly, you look like a normal guy to me. You did talk about some genetic things, though. so maybe there are things I'm not seeing.

I do know what you're talking about, though, because I have similar problems. I have tried online dating off and on, and I have gotten brushed off more than a few times. I tend to suspect it might be because I look quite a bit younger than I really am---always have, too. When I was in the 12th grade, I used to get jaw drops when I told people how old I was. Now, I suspect I could probably pass for nineteen if I wanted to. There really isn't much I can do about that, either. When I was in high school, I tried lifting weights, thinking that if I bulked up, I'd look older. I didn't bulk up that much, and I didn't end up looking much older, if at all.