Trigger Words

[Sarah Valentine]

With me it's not just words I get pissed off if you:

like others have said whistle, clap, snap your fingers at me,
give me what I like to call "the look" you know the look that says "Oh my, it's not your fault that your a failure AND a retard."

Or if you call me:

Bitch, slut, c**t, whore, woman, little girl, girlie.

If you aren't my boyfriend you are NOT allowed to call me:

Honey, sweetie, sugar, baby, hotness, (I wanted to punch him out so bad you have no idea) sweetheart.

Sorry if it seemed like an angry rant, this bitch is in full on rage mode.

[Plaidman]

Or if you call me:

Bitch

If you aren't my boyfriend you are NOT allowed to call me:

baby

Oh come on baby! Don't be a bitch! Wait... what's with the chainsaw... GAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[LexiaFira]

you SO asked for that one Plaid

and no, blas, I have nothing against those who do wear makeup for wanting to look their best i just envy it. There are a few RARE RARE pics of me in makeup before the horrible rashes occurred. one is a school pic that i don't think i ever scanned and one is of me in goth-ish attire with matching makeup. which is lumped somewhere in my photobucket

[Sarah Valentine]

Oh come on baby! Don't be a bitch! Wait... what's with the chainsaw... GAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Chainsaw, yeah that sounds like me. Oh Plaid, I love your humor. That cheered me up.

[blas87]

Trust me, Lexia, there are plenty of cover-ups that don't help my acne much. It's a never ending battle of the skin. I've had moderate adult acne since I was 20 and it's starting to slow a bit, but I still have my weeks where it's as bad as it was a few years ago.

I've found that mineral makeups work the best with my skin.


Oohh, back on topic. I've found something else that gets me going. "Have to"

As in "You HAVE to come in tonight and work"

"You HAVE to do it this way"

Hate it hate it hate it.

[LexiaFira]

i found my solution to "have to"
I may have to do it but it doesn't mean i have to like it.

hmm. will look into mineral based makeup. i also thought some of the skin issues were stress or anxiety related as they tend to get worse around that time of the month too but there are some days i can't tell the difference.
but its ok. no one seems to take notice around here and i mostly am used to it, as there are some things i can use to wash my face in the morning with.

[blas87]

When I had the extra money, I was buying organic skin care from Gunilla of Sweden. Wow is that some awesome stuff, especially if you are a human oil rig and acne prone like I am.

I can't afford it anymore. I is depressed. That stuff is beyond Pro-Active, Murad, and all that other crap with their stupid benzoyl peroxide and acids. This is all natural with stuff like aloe and sunflower extracts. Sooo wonderful. Zaps zits within hours (or brings them to a quick head so you can pop them) and that product is just clay and glacier water. Their moisturizer was a god-send, because it was a mattifier, so you could moisturize and wear it under makeup. It made my skin stay smooth but never greasy, at least not for a few hours. No oils in any of their products.

[bunnyboy]

Oh dear lord, no real words that get me going.

Actions however speak louder than words.

Treating me like I'm some kind of trained animal is a great way to (off the clock and in civies) get a finger and a I'm not a (insert massive amounts of swearing) dog (insert that said person is a damned by God anus who has sexual relations with his mother.)

On the clock, it gets you the smile...

yes the smile, see.... my smile isn't a bright happy friendly smile, but... well think of the Joker... yes my smile is a fear inducing rictus grin, when combined with my eyes giving off the glare, usually makes people realize that, yes he does know where to bury bodies... however if done without the eyes it looks like, oh *CRAP* what is he planning.

I love my versatile evil smile.

[LexiaFira]

have yet to perfect that, it works half the time. please teach me?

[Mytical]

Words don't much affect me, I can thank my bi-polar father for that. Been called things that I won't repeat. When he is 'normal' its great, but as he gets older..normal is getting rarer.

Certain actions will, however, set me off to the point that somebody usually has to hold me back. It is so deeply ingrained in my psyche that I have no control of my actions. If I see a guy raising a hand to or hitting a female or child..it is not pretty. Since I also lose the ability to feel pain at all when in this mode, other people tend to get hurt. I don't even like to hurt insects. (I am a big big softy).

I don't like that there is no choice in the matter with me. I see it, I react. No grey area.

[blas87]

Oooh ohh ohh....

This is related to work. "Must ship today"

Oh my god if I hear that one more time.....too late.

Everything that is on the due list for today then therefore SHOULD be shipped today. It doesn't always happen that way, and that sucks, but going around yelling at everyone that this order "MUST SHIP TODAY!!!!!!!!111!!!!" is NOT going to get it done any faster.

[Rageaholic]

"When I was your age..." because it usually follows with how much harder they worked and a lecture about how I should be thankful for how easy I have it. I don't care and I'm not interested so keep it to yourself please.

[blas87]

Pepper said it on page 1, but I gotta bring it up again.

"I never said that"

Sure, you can't prove someone said something verbally if there are no other (unbiased) witnesses or a recording device, but these really neat inventions called cell phones, that can store text messages? I can read where you DID say that.

And in relation:

"That's not what I meant!"

Then why did you say it? I know many people take things the wrong way and put words in people's mouths, but when someone blatantly calls someone a name or says they are a "bitch" or whatever have you.....what did you really mean then?

Oh, and then the best part of all, when you've defeated the other person at their own game:

"Ok then"
"Whatever"
"Uh huh"

[jackfaire]

"No offense" almost always is followed by some of the most offensive things you will ever hear.

Improperly using a term that a 5th grader would know your misusing.

I am not talking like the word ironic. I mean things that are actually more common like, "Just playing devil's advocate" followed or preceded by the person's honest opinion.

"That's creepy" That one mostly in context. If a 30 year old person says, "I liked (insert teen show that was on the air after they were age 20)" a person will say that's creepy.

Same person will never say "that's creepy" if a teen ever stated they liked the Golden Girls.

To me this is odd since having been a teenager the person in question would be able to understand and relate to a well written show about teens. Whereas never having been an elderly person would be less able to connect with that show.

[DrFaroohk]

Pepper said it on page 1, but I gotta bring it up again.

"I never said that"

Sure, you can't prove someone said something verbally if there are no other (unbiased) witnesses or a recording device, but these really neat inventions called cell phones, that can store text messages? I can read where you DID say that.

And in relation:

"That's not what I meant!"

Then why did you say it? I know many people take things the wrong way and put words in people's mouths, but when someone blatantly calls someone a name or says they are a "bitch" or whatever have you.....what did you really mean then?

Oh, and then the best part of all, when you've defeated the other person at their own game:

"Ok then"
"Whatever"
"Uh huh"

lol I hear you on all that stuff. Especially when you've "beaten" them, and they refuse to acknowledge defeat, AND it's someone who holds authority over you and is using their fault information and knowledge to inflict some sort of nasty shit on you.

But a lot of people are good manipulators and will nitpick on some of the earlier stuff, putting words in your mouth, interrupting you so you only get two words out and then they take those two words and twist them around and get you all pissed off.

Or they suddenly take "the high road." I admit, I like to argue, even about stupid things, because I can't stand ignorance. I once got into an argument with someone who about played dumbledor in the harry potter movies, and it was basically at what point the new actor took over. And this other person insisted it was the same actor for all the movies or whatever. And finally she's just like "Oh well I don't care, I have better things to do than argue!" (only after it was clear she lost)

Sounds pretty stupid right? But people who are this stupid in one area will be that stupid in another area. This is the type who, if they are your boss, will make wildly illogical leaps in who's responsible for what and find a way to blame it all on you. They might even fire you based on faulty information, but they're too stupid to know any better.

yeah, I'd say my trigger words are basically anything said out of stupidity without any given thought to reason, logic and understanding.