"You've no right to be angry"

[LexiaFira]

After being promised things over and over, or plans set, or be told one thing and have another happen and when I try to justify that I'm upset about it i've no right to be angry for being lied to or screwed over.

So i've no right to be angry i should just stand here and take it. Yea...no
So don't start that with me when I shut down and just look you straight in the eyes and say you have no right to talk to me gtfo and leave me alone.
Don't condescend to me and sure as hell don't try and stop me when I go about cutting you out of my life.
And for the record its not anyone here or any of my friends its someone that should have been told off ages ago. So furious i had to fix alot of typos and try not to start throwing things. People think I'm nice, only because I wanted to prevent getting to this state because then everyone gets hurt when it gets this far. I'm not a doormat for anyone so don't think me being nice is any sign that I will put up with it, the only reason i never called you on it is because you'd drag the entire family into it, now...I just don't care let them handle it.

[blas87]

Oh, I hate that. It's just as bad as "Don't be mad at me!" or "It's really NOT a big deal!!!!!!" when someone does something for the umpteenth time to piss me off.

It's their only defense and makes them feel better about themselves.

[Rageaholic]

I despise that attitude. Just because other people have it worse doesn't mean I can't be ticked off about stuff going on in my life.

And really, who's to tell you that you don't have the right to feel what you're feeling? People like that piss me off.

[LexiaFira]

this thread ties into trigger words. this is the same person who called me very bad names when she found out what happened in the past.

I am nice, i was raised to be nice and courteous. Well when someone cannot return the favor I try to let it go and see from their point of view. Kind of hard when all I get is either forced politeness in return or what she has done to me in the trigger words thread.
I am no longer nice to her as she has no excuse to act the way she did to me and for her to not see it as something to be upset about because she lost her temper for a moment. Right, so its ok to lose your temper and then act like nothing happened no apologies. nah to heck with you. I'll be nice and be a good friend but not when you'll be like that. So if she wants to talk to me I make it absolutely brief and any time she wants with my daughter is monitored now.