Intruding Prudes

[Ladeeda]

Did.... did you just compare being heavy to being a pedophile/child molester/rapist?

....wow.

[blas87]

All I'm going to say to you Panda, as a fellow cheesehead, I hope to God you don't go outside naked in the middle of winter to get a "feel" for the weather.

[Amanita]

Wow..so those of us who aren't thin all need to be ashamed of ourselves?
I would tell you what you could do with that attitude and comment of yours, but it would violate forum rules for sure.
You know, a good many of us "fat folks" probably could lose weight. Too bad it's much harder to lose bigotry, hypocrisy, and ignorance. Comparing overweight people to somebody who has sex with a 13 year old and brags about it? You freaking kidding me?

[Plaidman]

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You just compared...overweight people to... pedophiles.....?

HUH?

How is that even in the same realm?!

[Red Panda]

Technically the person would only be a pedophile if the 13 year old hadn't hit puberty.

I'm just saying, there are things you are technically allowed to do but shouldn't because you should be ashamed. If you are fat then don't dress like you aren't. You should be ashamed you were weak enough to get that huge and until you work yourself into a decent weight you should cover up.

[Ladeeda]

Technically the person would only be a pedophile if the 13 year old hadn't hit puberty.

I'm just saying, there are things you are technically allowed to do but shouldn't because you should be ashamed. If you are fat then don't dress like you aren't. You should be ashamed you were weak enough to get that huge and until you work yourself into a decent weight you should cover up.

Having sex with a 13 year old is only legal if you're another 13 year old. Your "technicality" reads like a very, very bad attempt to backpedal.

And why should someone be ashamed just because YOU think they are unattractive? If YOU should be allowed to be nude in public, everyone should be. It is as simple as that.

[Plaidman]

Technically the person would only be a pedophile if the 13 year old hadn't hit puberty.

A 13 year old is still underage by law. Unless you subscribe to the ideals that anyone that hits puberty should be allowed to have sex with whatever age. Which there are girls as young as seven hitting puberty.

I'm just saying, there are things you are technically allowed to do but shouldn't because you should be ashamed. If you are fat then don't dress like you aren't. You should be ashamed you were weak enough to get that huge and until you work yourself into a decent weight you should cover up

Why oh why should be people be ashamed just because you belive they should?
Do tell us more Red Panda. What else should be people be ashamed of?

As for being weak?
The only thing that makes people, is their inability to accept people for who they are.

I accept that you aren't a nice person. I don't like you, but I at least accept you for what you are.

That's more then you can say to others.

[KnitShoni]

Oh. Boy. We have taken this thread in all kinds of directions.

[Plaidman]

Oh. Boy. We have taken this thread in all kinds of directions.

How so?

It's the same thing.

She wants to be told that she can be naked outside, while at same time, she denies that overweight people cannot do the same.

She should be fine with both, or be fine with nether. It's not a ME ME ME ME, NOT THEM NOT THEM NOT THEM deal.

If she would be fine with all people be naked, I'd be a little more on her side.

However, she feels that she's entitled to be naked outside, and that her neighbor wife is just jealous of her body.

If a overweight person did the exact same thing, was outside naked, Red Panda would be screaming that person should not be outside like that, because it offends her.

Red Panda does not seem to get, that her being naked herself, is offending her neighbor.

Not that hard of a concept to understand.

[Red Panda]

Sex with a 13 year old is still illegal but not as icky as being a pedo. You should definitly be ashamed if you go after 13 year olds.

And being fat is a sign of weakness. It takes strength to excersize and deny yourself food in the name of health. Sitting all day on the couch eating junk food is easy. Its about the easiest thing you can do unless you have a servant to feed you while you do literally nothing.

[Ladeeda]

And being fat is a sign of weakness. It takes strength to excersize and deny yourself food in the name of health. Sitting all day on the couch eating junk food is easy. Its about the easiest thing you can do unless you have a servant to feed you while you do literally nothing.

Begging your pardon, but I'm only a bit of tummy pooch away from being ideal for my height and build. I sit on my ass all the live long day, don't exercise, am lazy as fuck, and sure as heck don't deny myself my junk food.

Strength ain't no part of it, honey.

[Ginger Tea]

problem solved

[protege]

A "sign of weakness?" Are you kidding me?

Not all fat people are that way because they can't control their eating habits. Some of them, yes. But, there are other causes--medical conditions, lack of exercise, stress, one's job, to name a few. So, to put them all in that category is a bit ignorant, don't you think?

Take my grandfather, who was a bit on the heavy side. And no, it was *not* from eating too much. Grandpa was pretty strong, and was by no means a pussy. He was, after all, a guy who blew up bridges and was in charge of heavy explosives during WWII. Did I mention he was a boxer and wrestler? Not surprising since he was over 6' and built like a Mack truck

Anyhoo, by the time he was in his 30s, his knees started giving out. For some reason, he had no cartilage in his knees...making it not only difficult, but painful to walk. He'd exercise when he could, but it was extremely painful. Plus, lifting weights doesn't burn the same amount of calories and fat that cardio does

So, there you see one example disproving your belief. I'm sure people on this board could provide others...
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Back on topic here, not all of us *want* to see strangers, or even people we know naked. Sorry, but I don't want to see that.

[Hobbs]

A 13 year old is still underage by law. Unless you subscribe to the ideals that anyone that hits puberty should be allowed to have sex with whatever age. Which there are girls as young as seven hitting puberty.

I think that RP means that it's not pedophilia to go after a 13 year old, it's Hebephilia.

Ginger Tea, that's why I love Japan.

[Red Panda]

There are plenty of people who can't excersize or are even wheelchair ridden who manage to not weigh a ton. Thats because they eat one serving at dinner instead of 12.

If you can sit around eating junk food all day then good for you, you are lucky.

But if you get up to 400 or more pounds then you only have yourself to blame. Nobody has shown me evidence of a medical condition that causes that much wieght gain. There are ones where you gain weight but 60 pounds doesn't make you morbidly obese unless you are already doing several things wrong.

Lack of excersize can contribute, but if you eat healthy it won't make you gain that much. Even then, not excersizing is your own fault

Job? Are you the taste tester at a pie factory? Are you in charge of cleaning up piles of chocolate and the only way to do so is to eat it? What job makes you gain weight?

Stress? Maybe you are stressed because you only have three jars of gravy to go with dinner instead of five. Stress won't make you gain hundreds of pounds.


Fat people need to admit that they are the reason they are fat.

If a fat person is naked in their home that is their issue. They should show shame at their condition and do everything to avoid showing flesh, but there is no way to stop them, other then letting them know they are not acceptable in society.