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back history: there are two nieces, eldest and youngest. and my daughter. every other saturday they are dropped off so granpaw can have his time with them. HOWEVER due to youngest niece being born, eldest thinks she can act like a baby and get attention to.
Eldest Niece = EN
Youngest Niece = YN
Me = yarp
DD = Dear daugher, my kid
GP = Granpaw
NM = Niece's mother
DD and YN are going to be a year old come november. and lately because of there being a baby IE her sister around, EN thinks its ok to revert to being a baby and acting like one which means she's thrown her potty training off, reverted BACK to bottles and so on. NM has actually done all she can to stop this if her husband would help her but thats another rant. EN gets everything she wants most of the time from family or if not she throws a horrible fit. Myself, hubs and NM are about the only ones who let her throw a fit and carry on and then follow through.
GP, and the rest of the family either cave or attempt to follow through. Well i was JUST ASKED if GP could borrow one of DD's bottles so EN could have milk. WTFH!? no, I am NOT encouraging this behavior she is over two years old (three in december) and does not need this behavior encouraged i dun care if she throws a damn fit. But i got this look that if i said no it would be my fault. oh hell no.
When I get a moment I am calling NM to come get EN because this is ridiculous as it undermines myself, hubs and NM when people cave to her and encourages her bad behavior. like we don't work hard enough to discourage that. thanks so much....
and for the record he would have eventually given it to her to calm her down if i had said no. all that does if you hold out then cave is teach her if she screams a bit longer she will get what she wants. nice
Eldest Niece = EN
Youngest Niece = YN
Me = yarp
DD = Dear daugher, my kid
GP = Granpaw
NM = Niece's mother
DD and YN are going to be a year old come november. and lately because of there being a baby IE her sister around, EN thinks its ok to revert to being a baby and acting like one which means she's thrown her potty training off, reverted BACK to bottles and so on. NM has actually done all she can to stop this if her husband would help her but thats another rant. EN gets everything she wants most of the time from family or if not she throws a horrible fit. Myself, hubs and NM are about the only ones who let her throw a fit and carry on and then follow through.
GP, and the rest of the family either cave or attempt to follow through. Well i was JUST ASKED if GP could borrow one of DD's bottles so EN could have milk. WTFH!? no, I am NOT encouraging this behavior she is over two years old (three in december) and does not need this behavior encouraged i dun care if she throws a damn fit. But i got this look that if i said no it would be my fault. oh hell no.
When I get a moment I am calling NM to come get EN because this is ridiculous as it undermines myself, hubs and NM when people cave to her and encourages her bad behavior. like we don't work hard enough to discourage that. thanks so much....
and for the record he would have eventually given it to her to calm her down if i had said no. all that does if you hold out then cave is teach her if she screams a bit longer she will get what she wants. nice
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