Something I've never quite understood is the way my mom seems to look at my financial situation. She is well aware that the library job does NOT pay enough to cover all expenses, pays too much for me to get on any sort of government assistance, and that I can't just pick up extra hours there whenever I want to.
However, now that I'll be down to just that job by next week, she seems to be going back to that mindset of thinking of my library salary should be adequate, and I shouldn't need any additional help. Granted, I AM planning to move back in with her at the end of December, but still.......even if I'm able to pick up extra hours in the library system, I'm limited to 30 a week.
(sorry if this isnt making sense, I'm just really concerned because my mom and I had a lot of nasty fights the last time I had to depend on her for financial help, because she insisted that I was "nickeling and diming" my money away.)
However, now that I'll be down to just that job by next week, she seems to be going back to that mindset of thinking of my library salary should be adequate, and I shouldn't need any additional help. Granted, I AM planning to move back in with her at the end of December, but still.......even if I'm able to pick up extra hours in the library system, I'm limited to 30 a week.
(sorry if this isnt making sense, I'm just really concerned because my mom and I had a lot of nasty fights the last time I had to depend on her for financial help, because she insisted that I was "nickeling and diming" my money away.)
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