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Considering that adultery is a form of cheating or to simplify.
Neither person involved has the consent of their spouse to be with another person.
I hate it in this case because it involves my step dad in which i never would have known and would not have cared (there is a reason for this)
I don't care because mom has made it clear its over and once january comes along he is on his own and will need to find his own place. They are being civil and talking at least and she has made him aware of her plans. If he was cheating there were some signs but they were not obvious at all.
I found out because he propositioned MY FRIEND. (keep in mind my friend is about 6/7 years older than me but we are about the same maturity in a sense only she has much more life experience than I.
Throughout her telling me, the key words that she told me he said is "sex is sex" yes it is, but knowing my step dad that means it is just an act to him. I know my myself and that I am like my mother, and in that fact that we are emotional creatures and that sex is more than just physical it holds an emotional bond. So for her to withhold from him is a very clear sign.
I want to tell mother but I won't only for the fact that I KNOW it would set her off and she would ruin herself financially to get him out now. I want her to get her own place first and then I will tell her, I even have backup in that if she hasn't gotten her own place by january my friend and myself will confront her.
This for me is the last straw as he's let his own kids run rampant. One was a pothead but did better, the other slept around for favors and just did not ever want to better herself or get a job but be an addict. Only instead of drinking and drugs it was tattoos and piercings. And now she has a 5 month old so she has no choice but to grow the f*** up. its sad. And I dislike his kids but i don't want them to die or become hurt yet the most they will ever get from me is advice because they have burnt all their bridges in the family and its too effing bad for them. very long rant with step dad and his kids.
I was bad but never as bad as they were dammit.
Any respect I had for him is gone. And here i was angry about he went back to smoking and doing heavy work after his quadruple bipass. Not immediately after but about a month after. I just...want to scream at him wtf is wrong with him because he has seriously effed up big time and lucky i don't tell him to go to hell. (i won't because that would mean Daughter would not get to see her grandmother and great grandmother for a long time because of his drama)
i would cry if i gave a damn about him
Neither person involved has the consent of their spouse to be with another person.
I hate it in this case because it involves my step dad in which i never would have known and would not have cared (there is a reason for this)
I don't care because mom has made it clear its over and once january comes along he is on his own and will need to find his own place. They are being civil and talking at least and she has made him aware of her plans. If he was cheating there were some signs but they were not obvious at all.
I found out because he propositioned MY FRIEND. (keep in mind my friend is about 6/7 years older than me but we are about the same maturity in a sense only she has much more life experience than I.
Throughout her telling me, the key words that she told me he said is "sex is sex" yes it is, but knowing my step dad that means it is just an act to him. I know my myself and that I am like my mother, and in that fact that we are emotional creatures and that sex is more than just physical it holds an emotional bond. So for her to withhold from him is a very clear sign.
I want to tell mother but I won't only for the fact that I KNOW it would set her off and she would ruin herself financially to get him out now. I want her to get her own place first and then I will tell her, I even have backup in that if she hasn't gotten her own place by january my friend and myself will confront her.
This for me is the last straw as he's let his own kids run rampant. One was a pothead but did better, the other slept around for favors and just did not ever want to better herself or get a job but be an addict. Only instead of drinking and drugs it was tattoos and piercings. And now she has a 5 month old so she has no choice but to grow the f*** up. its sad. And I dislike his kids but i don't want them to die or become hurt yet the most they will ever get from me is advice because they have burnt all their bridges in the family and its too effing bad for them. very long rant with step dad and his kids.
I was bad but never as bad as they were dammit.
Any respect I had for him is gone. And here i was angry about he went back to smoking and doing heavy work after his quadruple bipass. Not immediately after but about a month after. I just...want to scream at him wtf is wrong with him because he has seriously effed up big time and lucky i don't tell him to go to hell. (i won't because that would mean Daughter would not get to see her grandmother and great grandmother for a long time because of his drama)
i would cry if i gave a damn about him
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