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  • #16
    In some ways I'm glad my brother-in-law's car has been repo'd, as he has a few DUIs on his record.
    He's currently sleeping on our couch. He has no where else to go, really. Hell, he doesn't even have a car to sleep in if he fucks up with us.

    Alcoholism is a disease and probably until it's better understood by society, we'll have issues with people doing illegal things with alcohol.

    My BIL is fortunate this time around as the state got involved with him, and now he has our support, plus the help of several state-run doctors to help with the depression at the root of the issue, not to mention addiction treatment. I hope he takes this golden opportunity to pull his shit back together.

    The only bummer is that I'm on the wagon now, too. I won't drink in front of him and all my wine and hard alcohol went to my sister's house to keep it away from him.

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    • #17
      There are other ways people can get into accidents. But it is only drunk driving that gets into the news. Not everyone that drinks is going to be driving. I only drink about once a month. It is rare, when I do throw back a few. Last week, I did. And yeah, I did need it. I guess I should have said that in the first place.
      Last edited by powerboy; 03-22-2008, 11:41 AM.

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      • #18
        Originally posted by Seshat View Post
        .

        Another important thing I forgot to mention: nothing will sober you up. Only time. Water, B-group vitamins, or coffee only make you feel better or reduce your hangover -
        I would like to point out one thing here, coffee only makes you feel more alert, as it has a diuretic effect (however small) it will make it feel like your hangover lasts longer as a hangover is dehydration.

        I would like to point out (completely seperate from the above) that if you're hungover that doesn't mean that you're alcohol free, it just means your body is running out of water to metabolise the alcohol.

        AFPhoenix,

        Not all drink drivers are alcoholics, in the same way not all alcoholics are drink drivers (some are aware that they shouldn't be driving), but kudos to your BIL, I really do hope he stays on the wagon.
        The test of police efficiency is the absence of crime and disorder, not the visible evidence of police action in dealing with it. Robert Peel

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        • #19
          Originally posted by powerboy View Post
          There are other ways people can get into accidents. But it is only drunk driving that gets into the news.
          Every serious accident in my city gets into the news, whether there is alcohol involved or not.

          But do you know why drunk driving accidents get more attention? Because they're completely preventable, and drunk driving is illegal.

          People know this, and yet they still do it. So of course my local news is going to tell people when some moron criminal gets behind the wheel of a half-ton of steel and starts cruising through our neighbourhoods.

          There is never an excuse to drive drunk.

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          • #20
            Originally posted by powerboy View Post
            But it is only drunk driving that gets into the news.
            Really?

            http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/m...er/7309320.stm

            http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/devon/7289082.stm

            http://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/br...cle3538805.ece

            http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/s...re/7286332.stm

            http://www.thestar.co.uk/headlines/W...ent.3903731.jp

            http://www.harrogateadvertiser.net/h...ent.3900018.jp

            http://www.thisisplymouth.co.uk/disp...entPK=20210044

            http://www.fife.police.uk/default.aspx?page=3135

            http://www.newmarketjournal.co.uk/ne...ad-.3901708.jp

            I beg to differ.

            However, causing a crash whilst drunk will 9/10 mean its your fault, unless you've managed through sheer (bad) luck to have another person plough into the side of you.

            There is no such thing as a 'safe' level of alcohol within the blood stream whilst driving other than nil. Airline pilots cannot have any alcohol in their blood, why is it any different for car drivers? It sends out contradictory messages that some alcohol is safe but you gotta keep guessing because there is no way of working out you blood alcohol level without a breathilyser.

            Whilst out and about at work a chap who was quite clearly sozzled asked me to administer a breath test as he'd 'only had a couple' and wanted to know whether or not he was safe to drive. That question should have been plenty enough notice for him to realise he wasn't safe to drive.
            The test of police efficiency is the absence of crime and disorder, not the visible evidence of police action in dealing with it. Robert Peel

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            • #21
              Originally posted by powerboy View Post
              There are other ways people can get into accidents. But it is only drunk driving that gets into the news.
              Some people get electrocuted by accident. Doesn't make getting hammered and deciding to play with a transformer any more intelligent of a decision.

              My mother and sister were both nearly killed by some asshole who 'only had a couple' and 'felt okay to drive'. He also only drank occasionally.

              If you are looking to justify the fucktardary of driving drunk, you are in the wrong place. There is no justification for getting behind the wheel drunk.

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              • #22
                Originally posted by Seshat View Post
                Why? There are plenty of other ways for someone to get from an alcohol-serving public place to home - or to wherever they want to go.


                - They can use public transport or a taxi, provided they're not offensively drunk.

                - They can use a 'booze bus', at least where I am.

                - They can have a designated driver in their group.

                - They can rent a room at a hotel and sleep it off, then go home.


                Why the hell would you drive drunk, when you have so many other choices?
                Originally posted by blas87 View Post
                My coworker was telling us all last week about his uncle getting his 8th DUI. Yes, that's his 8th. People in Wisconsin (and other states) are getting that many DUIs and MINIMAL jail time each time and still get their licenses back or find a way to drive anyway.

                Shows how serious the state is about stopping drunk driving and really punishing the offenders.
                Blas, your co-worker's uncle has 8 DUIs?!! If I'm not mistaken, after so many DUIs (especially if there was manslaughter) your license could be permanently revoked with no chance of getting a hardship license in Florida. Hell I knew this guy from friend who had his 4th or 5th DUI that served a year in prison, got his license back and is now doing 5 years of parole after he got out in 2006.

                I agree with Seshat and I just don't understand how people do not act on the options she mentioned to keep themselves from driving drunk. I think some tow truck companies tow your car and take you home for free on the holidays. Dunno if it's just my area, but hey it never hurts to check.
                Last edited by tropicsgoddess; 03-22-2008, 05:49 PM.
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                • #23
                  Originally posted by powerboy View Post
                  There are other ways people can get into accidents. But it is only drunk driving that gets into the news.
                  Around here, you can get in the news for any silly driving behaviour. Drink-driving, speeding, driving while on a cell phone, driving while turned around to yell at the kids in the back seat.

                  Not just drunk driving.

                  Not everyone that drinks is going to be driving.
                  Right. The smart ones aren't.

                  I only drink about once a month. It is rare, when I do throw back a few. Last week, I did. And yeah, I did need it.
                  Being unable to drink (or at least, unable to without screwing up my meds), I just don't understand how someone can 'need' it.

                  If you require a nervous system depressant to function, you can get a guaranteed dose of known quality with known effects and a neutral base by talking to a doctor and getting a script.

                  Admittedly, modern production standards do mean that modern alcohols, if served at specific doses, are almost as precise. But they're rarely served at dosages quite that precise. If you need it to function, you really are better off getting a psychoactive specifically prescribed for your specific problems.

                  If you don't need a nervous system depressant, alcohol's not a necessity. It's one aspect of a form of stress relief, or fun, or end-of-week ritual, or whatever you do when you go down to pub for a cold one.

                  As for me and my psychoactive (prescribed) drugs? I'm considered safe to drive on a legal level. My drug combination shouldn't impair me, according to the pharmacists I've spoken to. But I still avoid driving, just in case.

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                  • #24
                    Originally posted by crazylegs View Post

                    Not all drink drivers are alcoholics, in the same way not all alcoholics are drink drivers (some are aware that they shouldn't be driving), but kudos to your BIL, I really do hope he stays on the wagon.
                    Very true. I suppose I've just had to be aware of it more. It would be interesting to see the breakdown of DUIs based on people with diagnosed alcoholism and people who are not addicted but made the assumption they could drive safely even with an elevated BAC.

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                    • #25
                      Originally posted by Seshat View Post
                      Being unable to drink (or at least, unable to without screwing up my meds), I just don't understand how someone can 'need' it.
                      It's a psychological thing. True alcoholism troubles aside, sometimes you just need a way to blow off some steam, and for a lot of people (not necessarily myself), that means knocking back X number of drinks of their poison of choice.

                      I don't have any problem with this. I only have a problem when they do it and then go get in a car with the express intention of driving it someplace. Speaking from personal experience, I once had had a very stressful night at a job and decided to go over to one of my favorite restaurants and have a strawberry margarita (Mmm, strawberry margaritas!) as a self-reward. (When I self-reward, it's rarely alcoholic in nature, btw.)

                      Now, I only had *one*, because I knew I would have to drive myself home that night. But this was a fairly big margarita in one of those tall glasses (that was the way this place served them), and with those kinds of drinks, they tend to make me sleepy more than anything else. (I'm not a drinker by nature; the most I ever have is one or two wine coolers or actual glasses of wine when I drink, for a rough average of about once every three months) It's the closest I've ever come to feeling anything even mildly resembling what people might call an alcoholic 'buzz', though I doubt it actually was. I drove slower than the posted limit that night as a precaution - I wasn't nodding off at the wheel, but I was definitely more relaxed after leaving that restaurant. Needless to say, that is the *only* time I've ever done anything like that - now if I know I'm going to go the margarita route ahead of time, I'll only do it if somebody else has the car keys.

                      I realize that people have different tolerance levels - for instance, women are automatically on the short end of the alcohol stick because their bodies process the stuff faster, so they feel the effects sooner than men. Other women *can* outdrink men, and some men can't touch more than one or two beers without feeling zonked. It's frighteningly easy to go over what one thinks is one's personal limit, so be careful. Better safe than sorry, I always believe.
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                      • #26
                        Seshat, Its cool that you have your reasons for not drinking. But I will always drink here and there. You will never stop me from doing that.

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                        • #27
                          Originally posted by powerboy View Post
                          You will never stop me from doing that.
                          I don't think anyone would ever want to try to.

                          Amythest Hunter

                          The smartest thing to do is not get behind the wheel of a vehicle whilst under the influence, no matter how much/little you've had.

                          On UK TV a few years back they showed an experiment with bus drivers, these drivers all had at least ten years experience driving buses and knew the *exact* space they could drive through, or rather they could whilst sober.

                          After consuming 2-4 units (1-2 normal strength beers) most could not safely navigate through cones and thought their buses could get through gaps that would be a physical impossibility.
                          The test of police efficiency is the absence of crime and disorder, not the visible evidence of police action in dealing with it. Robert Peel

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                          • #28
                            Originally posted by powerboy View Post
                            Seshat, Its cool that you have your reasons for not drinking. But I will always drink here and there. You will never stop me from doing that.
                            Drink whenever you wish. That's your business.

                            Just don't drive while the alcohol is in your system. It's more than just your life you are risking. A drunk driver is more likely to kill someone else than themself.

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                            • #29
                              Originally posted by powerboy View Post
                              Seshat, Its cool that you have your reasons for not drinking. But I will always drink here and there. You will never stop me from doing that.
                              I don't want to.

                              I do want to stop people from driving drunk. Or driving distracted, or driving too fast for the combination of car/driver/conditions, or driving when their eyes have been dilated for an optometric exam, or driving in any other way it's stupid to do so.

                              I am also genuinely curious: why do you 'need' to drink? Or are you using a different meaning of the word 'need' to the meaning I use?

                              Amethyst Hunter: your example isn't 'need' in the sense I use the word. But for a more relaxed use of the word, yeah, I can see it. You need (by my definition) some means of winding down and relaxing. To achieve that, you need (by your definition) a strawberry margarita. But if you can't get alcohol, you could also wind down with a walk in the park, or a cigarette, or watching the sunset, or a vicious game of squash with a friend, or something.

                              Powerboy, is that what you mean as well?

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                              • #30
                                Originally posted by Seshat View Post
                                I do want to stop people from driving drunk. Or driving distracted, or driving too fast for the combination of car/driver/conditions, or driving when their eyes have been dilated for an optometric exam, or driving in any other way it's stupid to do so.
                                I could kiss you right now!

                                Now, how to get the rest of the general population to think in the same way...?
                                The test of police efficiency is the absence of crime and disorder, not the visible evidence of police action in dealing with it. Robert Peel

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