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Okay, I don't hate him really, lately I'm actually fairly apathetic towards him. Since the whole court case thing about him paying for my post-secondary ended with him winning (though the judge did say he still had a moral obligation 
), I've been fairly distant from him. His wife and her family have basically brainwashed him into their way of thinking, which is "let's try and screw the system as much as possible and mooch money from whereever we can get it" It's gotten pretty bad the past couple of years.
Anyway to the main part of this. He called my house today, I wasn't home because me and the bf are in our hometown visiting. So I call him back after getting his message and let him know I'm in town. Same stupid convo that happens every time I talk to him happens, I mentioned that I noticed my step-sister didn't seem to be at home a lot, he was like yeah she is, just like you when you were her age (she's 17), and just said, I'm wasn't like her. but didn't really argue beyond that. but the comparison just shows how little he knows me. I didn't even get a card from him this year, or last for that matter. Not that it's about that, but when I see what they're spending on her kids, I can't help but feel a little bitter (again it's not about gifts or anything like that, but you know, it hurts that they don't even think of me short of a phone call) So this is my entire relationship with him, two maybe 3 phone calls a year. And I'm pretty well ready to leave that as well.
), I've been fairly distant from him. His wife and her family have basically brainwashed him into their way of thinking, which is "let's try and screw the system as much as possible and mooch money from whereever we can get it" It's gotten pretty bad the past couple of years. Anyway to the main part of this. He called my house today, I wasn't home because me and the bf are in our hometown visiting. So I call him back after getting his message and let him know I'm in town. Same stupid convo that happens every time I talk to him happens, I mentioned that I noticed my step-sister didn't seem to be at home a lot, he was like yeah she is, just like you when you were her age (she's 17), and just said, I'm wasn't like her. but didn't really argue beyond that. but the comparison just shows how little he knows me. I didn't even get a card from him this year, or last for that matter. Not that it's about that, but when I see what they're spending on her kids, I can't help but feel a little bitter (again it's not about gifts or anything like that, but you know, it hurts that they don't even think of me short of a phone call) So this is my entire relationship with him, two maybe 3 phone calls a year. And I'm pretty well ready to leave that as well.