Oral Sex

[Greenday]

I've done it when I've heard it from women before. They could have been straightforward about it but whatever floats their boat. Too many people refuse to just say what they want.

[Ladeeda]

Plenty of guys try to get out of it even then, but expect it performed on them anyway.

I've adopted Dan Savage's stance on the issue: oral sex comes standard issue, and any model lacking it should be returned to the lot.

[Greenday]

I dunno, I enjoy doing it.

[blas87]

I'm sure you do, Greenday. Lots of good guys do.

[DrFaroohk]

Well, no longer liked isn't really a debateable hate is where I'm coming from. Certainly not an earth-shattering issue. Irritating to you, sure. Just had me scratching my head.

Rapscallion

Ah yes. Sorry about that. I sometimes forget this is a debating forum and not just for random bitching.

[AdminAssistant]

Plenty of guys try to get out of it even then, but expect it performed on them anyway.

Fiance will occasionally talk a big game about how he's going to 'surprise' me at some point with all of this fantastic oral.

Still waiting.....

[Ladeeda]

Fiance will occasionally talk a big game about how he's going to 'surprise' me at some point with all of this fantastic oral.

Still waiting.....

Is it too late to trade him in for a functional model?

[AdminAssistant]

Is it too late to trade him in for a functional model?

LOL. Yeah, probably. I mean, in the bedroom department, everything else is pretty good, so I'm not going to complain *too* much about the lack of oral.

[Ladeeda]

LOL. Yeah, probably. I mean, in the bedroom department, everything else is pretty good, so I'm not going to complain *too* much about the lack of oral.

No, no, no! You gotta think like a dude. A guy would SO complain about it. Complain about the lack of oral! Make the dissatisfaction known. The squeaky wheel gets the tongue!

Or something like that.

[DrFaroohk]

Sex and backrubs - two things I have a hard time telling the giver that they're not doing the best job because I feel like I should be lucky enough to be getting it anyway I shouldn't complain.

[Ladeeda]

Sex and backrubs - two things I have a hard time telling the giver that they're not doing the best job because I feel like I should be lucky enough to be getting it anyway I shouldn't complain.

"I" statements, bro.

"I really like it when you rub like this."

"I've always wanted to try that."

"I'd be a bit more comfortable if you moved your leg here."

So long as no one acts like a jerk, feedback is fine. Necessary, even.

[Andara Bledin]

Sex and backrubs - two things I have a hard time telling the giver that they're not doing the best job because I feel like I should be lucky enough to be getting it anyway I shouldn't complain.

What Ladeeda said.

Also, these are two areas where feedback improves the experience immensely.

^-.-^

[Greenday]

And if you aren't liking it but aren't saying anything, she will pick up on your dissatisfaction and will put less effort into it since you aren't enjoying it.

[Ninja_Sushi]

Oh I know. My one year of marriage taught me this.....Sad.....

[Amanita]

oral sex comes standard issue, and any model lacking it should be returned to the lot.

That makes me glad I'm currently celibate..I'm sorry, but the idea of putting a guy's dick in my mouth just grosses me right out. That being said, if I were in a relationship with a guy, I wouldn't demand he go down on me either.

I don't agree that oral should be an obligation, or that people not into it should be doomed to a lifetime of being single (returned to the lot). However, I do believe in reciprocity- Don't ask your partner to do something you're unwilling to do yourself.