background:
My husband has one older brother, one older sister, and two younger sisters(twins). Older brother and hubs are the ONLY ones to have graduated HS(hubs has GED, but same diff), hubs is the ONLY one to graduate college. All his sisters got married at age 18 to various low-lifes and started popping out kids. Girls were raised, get pregnant, trap a man, you don't have to work, just keep having babies. Husband was raised "men are worthless except for making babies and supporting women". /background.
Hubs' family due to lack of education, and lack of desire to get education, work part-time minimum wage jobs, they get in a financial bind they call hubs, and beg for money(and tell him not to tell me about it-we don't keep secrets from each other).
Twin R could get a full time managerial job at a gas station two blocks from MIL's house, (where she, her 2 kids, and on again-off again illegal alien husband* are staying, due to them being evicted AGAIN-at 23 she's been on her own with her husband for a whopping 8 months total) but she doesn't want to give up her minimum wage 3 day a week cleaning job, with no insurance. Fine whatever, you enjoy being broke.....
Wait, your begging your brother, MY HUSBAND for money for an abortion because you cheated on your husband, didn't use ANY form of birth control(didn't you just get hospitalized for a pelvic infection chlymidia/gonnerhea combo, that your unfaithful husband gave you, how rock-stupid are you?), and told your husband you were faithful while separated. Why should your brother/my husband pay for your fuck-up?
HE offered you the same as we offered my sister(my sister miscarried), we will not pay for ANY medical procedure for ANYONE(medications sure), but we will gladly adopt and raise the child.
Oh, we ruined your life and destroyed your marriage?
(this is according to R, her twin M, older sister S, and HIS OWN MOTHER!)
You're 23, grow the fuck up and take responsibility for your OWN actions, our actions/inaction caused nothing, this is all on you, we did not lie to your husband, and we did not have sex with 5 different guys using no form of birth control.
We have bailed you out more times than I can count-you have paid us back once.
Hubs is ready to sever contact with his entire family over this....I do not blame him....the only thing keeping him in some manner of contact, despite the screaming, yelling and oh how evil and heartless we are, is, without us the kids go without.
*they were going to divorce, she was trying to get pregnant to "land" another bill payer, he decided to try and work things out.
My husband has one older brother, one older sister, and two younger sisters(twins). Older brother and hubs are the ONLY ones to have graduated HS(hubs has GED, but same diff), hubs is the ONLY one to graduate college. All his sisters got married at age 18 to various low-lifes and started popping out kids. Girls were raised, get pregnant, trap a man, you don't have to work, just keep having babies. Husband was raised "men are worthless except for making babies and supporting women". /background.
Hubs' family due to lack of education, and lack of desire to get education, work part-time minimum wage jobs, they get in a financial bind they call hubs, and beg for money(and tell him not to tell me about it-we don't keep secrets from each other).
Twin R could get a full time managerial job at a gas station two blocks from MIL's house, (where she, her 2 kids, and on again-off again illegal alien husband* are staying, due to them being evicted AGAIN-at 23 she's been on her own with her husband for a whopping 8 months total) but she doesn't want to give up her minimum wage 3 day a week cleaning job, with no insurance. Fine whatever, you enjoy being broke.....
Wait, your begging your brother, MY HUSBAND for money for an abortion because you cheated on your husband, didn't use ANY form of birth control(didn't you just get hospitalized for a pelvic infection chlymidia/gonnerhea combo, that your unfaithful husband gave you, how rock-stupid are you?), and told your husband you were faithful while separated. Why should your brother/my husband pay for your fuck-up?
HE offered you the same as we offered my sister(my sister miscarried), we will not pay for ANY medical procedure for ANYONE(medications sure), but we will gladly adopt and raise the child.
Oh, we ruined your life and destroyed your marriage?
(this is according to R, her twin M, older sister S, and HIS OWN MOTHER!)
You're 23, grow the fuck up and take responsibility for your OWN actions, our actions/inaction caused nothing, this is all on you, we did not lie to your husband, and we did not have sex with 5 different guys using no form of birth control.
We have bailed you out more times than I can count-you have paid us back once.
Hubs is ready to sever contact with his entire family over this....I do not blame him....the only thing keeping him in some manner of contact, despite the screaming, yelling and oh how evil and heartless we are, is, without us the kids go without.
*they were going to divorce, she was trying to get pregnant to "land" another bill payer, he decided to try and work things out.
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