Being Nasty To Me Then Trying To Get On My Good Graces Without Apologizing

[tropicsgoddess]

This is a personal pet peeve of mine, no matter who the person is, when somebody wants to talk shit, get nasty to me over anything that I hold near and dear to my heart and then after so long gets all smiley and tries to get on my good graces and doesn't so much as give me an apology. No, doesn't work that way at all. It just makes that person (to me) look like a big fat phony. I hate phonies for one and two that says to me "I'm only trying to get on your good graces again for [insert selfish reason] and I still am not sorry and don't give a fuck about your feelings about [blank]". I don't forget and I sure as hell won't forgive that!

[blas87]

My mom is good for giving a good verbal ass-tearing, and then sometime later, giving a sob story apology.

I love the woman, I do, and I know she's going through some real troubles with my dad's drinking problem, but when she lashes out on me or my brother for wanting to live our lives and be independent and gets all mad that we aren't with her every moment so she doesn't have to deal with dad "alone", she blows up and starts crying and makes us so uncomfortable, and then later on, she'll call or text and tell whatever dad recently did and she's sooo sorry but she doesn't know how to deal anymore.

Well, as much as it hurts me to say it, you don't earn any points by tearing into your allies, Mom.

[AdminAssistant]

Mom does the same thing. It's better since the divorce, but when Dad was really bad, Mom was calling every other night, sobbing about how awful it was and how mean he was. I don't doubt the truth of it, but damn, woman! You got two legs, keys to a car, and a whole lot of relatives not too far away.