As some may or may not know..recently I've had a rough go. Including several days in the ICU at the hospital. Ever since I've been rather weak and worse..forgetful. Now most times I am ok..but there are times when I get so weak..I even need help to dress myself. So..right now I am very reliant on other people.
We are having to move, as I can not currently work..and without my income we simply can not afford to stay where we are. Even if the mortgage people worked with us and cut our bill in half, the cost of living would still be too much here. I've applied for disability, but that takes time.
Anyhow, so we've found a place..which we can afford to buy straight out. It needs some work done before we can move in, however. Work of course, unfortunately..I can not currently help with. Now..I am a very independent person, so I think I would be ok alone for a little while my various cousins, and my brother that lives in the area we are going to help get the other place ready. My family doesn't like the idea of me being alone..in case I get one of my weak spells, start coughing up blood..and can't make it to the phone.
So I asked the one person I thought I could rely on to come help me..and they can not. I hate having to rely on other people. I hate not being able to help with the major task of moving..I hate having to move. *sighs* Ok enough pity party..who is the main person that if you called/asked would be there to help you if things went south?
We are having to move, as I can not currently work..and without my income we simply can not afford to stay where we are. Even if the mortgage people worked with us and cut our bill in half, the cost of living would still be too much here. I've applied for disability, but that takes time.
Anyhow, so we've found a place..which we can afford to buy straight out. It needs some work done before we can move in, however. Work of course, unfortunately..I can not currently help with. Now..I am a very independent person, so I think I would be ok alone for a little while my various cousins, and my brother that lives in the area we are going to help get the other place ready. My family doesn't like the idea of me being alone..in case I get one of my weak spells, start coughing up blood..and can't make it to the phone.
So I asked the one person I thought I could rely on to come help me..and they can not. I hate having to rely on other people. I hate not being able to help with the major task of moving..I hate having to move. *sighs* Ok enough pity party..who is the main person that if you called/asked would be there to help you if things went south?