Ever since dropping out of school, I've been staying with my parents while looking for a job, for the most part, they've been very good about the whole thing, but the fact of the matter is, I don't have a job yet. I've tried...admittedly, not as hard as I should...but I have tried to find one. No luck so far. I did have one for a few days, but, well, it's complicated, but the fact of the matter is, I don't have that job anymore. They made sure to tell me it had nothing to do with me, that they think I'm a good guy and a hard worker, but they couldn't keep me anymore.
So, my parents talked to me today about the possibility of me having to move out depending on how much longer it takes me, and how motivated I am, to find a job.
I'm panicking right now. I've been panicking since we talked about it earlier today. If I get kicked out, I have nowhere else to go. I'm broke and jobless. I'd also be taken off their cell phone and car insurance, which basically means I wouldn't have a cell phone or be able to drive. Yeah, that'll make it really easy to find a job....
I feel so defeated. I wanted to tell them that. When they asked afterwards how I felt about that conversation, I wanted to cry, and tell them that I was panicking inside and that I just felt hopeless. But I didn't. Instead, I just said I had nothing to say. I have no idea how to communicate with them, or with anybody, about things of that sort in any form other than, well, this. It's why therapy was no help to me. I couldn't open up to the therapist at all. I'm completely stoic and stone-faced, even when I don't want to be.
This talk did the opposite of what they wanted. It didn't motivate me, it sucked all the motivation right out of me. I really don't see the point in continuing to try when I just know I'll fail.
Honestly, right now, at this moment, I don't even want to face another day. I will...but I just want to give up. I don't feel like there's any hope for me. No job, no future, might not even be a roof over my head if it keeps up.... I just want to crawl into my warm bed in my parents' house and never wake up again =/
So, my parents talked to me today about the possibility of me having to move out depending on how much longer it takes me, and how motivated I am, to find a job.
I'm panicking right now. I've been panicking since we talked about it earlier today. If I get kicked out, I have nowhere else to go. I'm broke and jobless. I'd also be taken off their cell phone and car insurance, which basically means I wouldn't have a cell phone or be able to drive. Yeah, that'll make it really easy to find a job....
I feel so defeated. I wanted to tell them that. When they asked afterwards how I felt about that conversation, I wanted to cry, and tell them that I was panicking inside and that I just felt hopeless. But I didn't. Instead, I just said I had nothing to say. I have no idea how to communicate with them, or with anybody, about things of that sort in any form other than, well, this. It's why therapy was no help to me. I couldn't open up to the therapist at all. I'm completely stoic and stone-faced, even when I don't want to be.
This talk did the opposite of what they wanted. It didn't motivate me, it sucked all the motivation right out of me. I really don't see the point in continuing to try when I just know I'll fail.
Honestly, right now, at this moment, I don't even want to face another day. I will...but I just want to give up. I don't feel like there's any hope for me. No job, no future, might not even be a roof over my head if it keeps up.... I just want to crawl into my warm bed in my parents' house and never wake up again =/
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