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Near the end of my last real relationship, the ex would bait me and then get mad if I didn't react the way he wanted (usually this also involved my words getting twisted around), accusing me of being the game-player.
Sounds like some of the fucking assholes I worked with.
We had a guy in my workshop I'll call F. I'm not a expert but I suspect F had some disorder... actually everyone suspected it. Personally I'm leaning a little towards Autism, but only because he had a "number game" he'd play with deadly accuracy to the point were a couple of people were scared. (skeeered is more like it in my my opinion)
Well anyway F... he didn't have a lot of social skills. So what did the guys at work do to him? They pick at him and pick at him until they had him spun up and sputtering... and then they'd yell at him for having mental issues.
Now not everyone harassed him. I know one woman S who basically yelled at the guys and said, "If he flips out and does something... I'm not going to punish him, I'm going to punish YOU for taunting him."
yeah i hated those guys. fucking idiots.
They even tried to get me mad at F but it never worked. I think F had a crush on me... and they'd try to get him to talk to me, thinking they'd embarrass him and piss me off. Only ... I just couldn't get mad at F; I figured if he had a crush it was just because I didn't treat him like shit, and if anything that made me sad.
Not sure what happened to him tho.
but i never have respect for people tho do shit like that... Create a situation where you spin someone else up, just to treat the other person like shit for getting spun up.
guys who do that... don't deserve to call themselves men.
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