I hate people who will refuse help just so they can come off as a martyr.
One of my close friends is an assistant to someone who has worked for the company for 30 years, he even moved to a new country 18 years ago for the company.
He has been told that he will be made redundant in May with pay.
In the 18 years he has stayed on a work visa, even though the company offered to pay for immigration costs once he got to the ten year mark.
The company even offered to pay for his immigration NOW even as he is being laid off.... but OHHHHH NO! HE couldnt possibly help him self in the slighest!
Now he has to go back to his original country. After three decades SLAVING away for a company, he lost his marriage and now his kids (they were born in the new country so they have citizenship) because he gave his "life and soul to the company"
He won't even go an see an immigration lawyer, he would much rather sulk and play the poor martyr so he can have everyone fawn over him and how sad he is. He is playing it up from her reports, he keeps telling anyone who will listen that he has given "everything" to the company and how do they repay him....
Boo freaking hoo buddy
If you are going to be so pathetic that you won't even try to help yourself or let someone else help you then I say good riddance!
Now I totally feel bad that he has lost his job, but I have no time or sympathy for people who "give everything" to a job.... its a job, if your marriage is on the rocks because of your job, GIVE IT UP, if you have no life because of your job, CUT BACK its a freaking job. It should NOT be your life, your life should be your family, and yourself
NOT some freaking place of business. If you go the extra mile then bully for you, but you should do it knowing that it's your choice to do it and you shouldn't expect loyalty from a business ever.
If you are willing to forfeit your time and health for a job then you are nuts! If you are willing to sacrifice a good marriage or relationship for a job you are an idiot and you have no one to blame but yourself.
I know that comes across harsh and blunt but I'm a blunt person and people who act in a pathetic manner really piss me off.
I can not stand people who want to bitch about a situation that sucks but that could be improved.... but ohhh no, then they cant play the martyr and get everyone's attention and pity. You suggest solutions until your blue in the face but they have an excuse at every single turn.
One of my close friends is an assistant to someone who has worked for the company for 30 years, he even moved to a new country 18 years ago for the company.
He has been told that he will be made redundant in May with pay.
In the 18 years he has stayed on a work visa, even though the company offered to pay for immigration costs once he got to the ten year mark.
The company even offered to pay for his immigration NOW even as he is being laid off.... but OHHHHH NO! HE couldnt possibly help him self in the slighest!
Now he has to go back to his original country. After three decades SLAVING away for a company, he lost his marriage and now his kids (they were born in the new country so they have citizenship) because he gave his "life and soul to the company"
He won't even go an see an immigration lawyer, he would much rather sulk and play the poor martyr so he can have everyone fawn over him and how sad he is. He is playing it up from her reports, he keeps telling anyone who will listen that he has given "everything" to the company and how do they repay him....
Boo freaking hoo buddy
If you are going to be so pathetic that you won't even try to help yourself or let someone else help you then I say good riddance!
Now I totally feel bad that he has lost his job, but I have no time or sympathy for people who "give everything" to a job.... its a job, if your marriage is on the rocks because of your job, GIVE IT UP, if you have no life because of your job, CUT BACK its a freaking job. It should NOT be your life, your life should be your family, and yourself
NOT some freaking place of business. If you go the extra mile then bully for you, but you should do it knowing that it's your choice to do it and you shouldn't expect loyalty from a business ever.
If you are willing to forfeit your time and health for a job then you are nuts! If you are willing to sacrifice a good marriage or relationship for a job you are an idiot and you have no one to blame but yourself.
I know that comes across harsh and blunt but I'm a blunt person and people who act in a pathetic manner really piss me off.
I can not stand people who want to bitch about a situation that sucks but that could be improved.... but ohhh no, then they cant play the martyr and get everyone's attention and pity. You suggest solutions until your blue in the face but they have an excuse at every single turn.
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