"Hello Beautiful!"

[Plaidman]

Blushing and giggling probably means you're not coming off as creepy. If you get glares and dismissive looks, you need to rethink your comments.

I, too, have the big boobs "problem." Comments about them, unless I know you, and know you're not a creep, are incredibly unwelcome. So would be comments about my butt.

But but but, you have such an awesome butt.....

[radiocerk]

*blushes and giggles*

[blas87]

I've always wished I could control the size and shape of my body, so that when I felt like it, I could be rail thin and flat chested/butted so that I wouldn't be gawked at as much, and of course so I could run and exercise comfortably, then when I get home, I can make myself curvacious again.

A lot of people make me feel ashamed of my body because it seems women are always giving me dirty looks or calling me names, and most guys won't even look me in the eyes.

And before anyone goes off on the "Well don't show it off then!" tangent or tries to excuse guys for being guys......my breasts LOOK so large on me (because of how small my waist is and because they match my lower half almost perfectly, while the rest of me is petite) that no matter what I wear, they are going to be there. They CANNOT be completely covered up, because they still poke out. Besides, purposely trying to cover them with high necklines or turtlenecks makes them look even larger yet. I also have a very, very round large butt (and big hips to match), and I can't even walk past a group of males without hearing mangiggles or whispers.

Perhaps it's my own fault for letting them make me feel that way, but it pisses me off. If I had it my way, I'd donate my excess lady fat to the needy girls who bitch to me that they want big boobs or a bigger butt, those desperate girls who wear those things you stuff in your pants to make your butt bigger. YOU DO NOT WANT A BIG ASS OR BIG BOOBS.

Bottom line, no one will take you seriously or respect you. And even if they do, it's not until they've already gotten a good look at your goodies, even straight females do it.

[Eisa]

Yep, my bf said that's probably why that girl commented on my cleavage cuz she's jealous I looked good or something. Sorry. I'm not fat [although I am a tiiiiny bit overweight], and I have big boobs. They don't go away. No matter what I wear. I don't dress to emphasize them because it annoys the fuck out of me when it seems like apparently everything above my neck is nonexistent.

[Trjgul]

I've always wished I could control the size and shape of my body, so that when I felt like it, I could be rail thin and flat chested/butted so that I wouldn't be gawked at as much, and of course so I could run and exercise comfortably, then when I get home, I can make myself curvacious again.

A lot of people make me feel ashamed of my body because it seems women are always giving me dirty looks or calling me names, and most guys won't even look me in the eyes.

And before anyone goes off on the "Well don't show it off then!" tangent or tries to excuse guys for being guys......my breasts LOOK so large on me (because of how small my waist is and because they match my lower half almost perfectly, while the rest of me is petite) that no matter what I wear, they are going to be there. They CANNOT be completely covered up, because they still poke out. Besides, purposely trying to cover them with high necklines or turtlenecks makes them look even larger yet. I also have a very, very round large butt (and big hips to match), and I can't even walk past a group of males without hearing mangiggles or whispers.

Perhaps it's my own fault for letting them make me feel that way, but it pisses me off. If I had it my way, I'd donate my excess lady fat to the needy girls who bitch to me that they want big boobs or a bigger butt, those desperate girls who wear those things you stuff in your pants to make your butt bigger. YOU DO NOT WANT A BIG ASS OR BIG BOOBS.

Bottom line, no one will take you seriously or respect you. And even if they do, it's not until they've already gotten a good look at your goodies, even straight females do it.

So much this. There is no hiding it, and it pisses me off that people apparently think "quirk of nature" means "easy", from my experiences.

I'm only slightly overweight (haven't had the chance to work off the pregnancy weight and firm up), but even at my slimmest everything is proportional and I'm built curvy. Here in Europe it hasn't been too much of a problem, but in the states I was deflecting unwanted attention all the time.

As for donating the "lady fat" (love that!), I had a pact with a now ex friend in high school to that effect. I'd go in for a reduction and she'd get the excess put into her. It ended up that she wouldn't need it after all, but at the time it at least gave me something to laugh about.