Skanks!

[Greenday]

You have a boyfriend.
Your boyfriend is in the Navy.
Your boyfriend was just deployed in March and is deployed until December in the Middle East.
You just had a huge issue with him about how he MIGHT have been cheating on him (and later you found out he definitely wasn't)

So why do you:
Flirt with every guy you see
Let other guys motorboat you (just because they are gay doesn't change a damn thing, whore) and grab your boobs
Get a gay guy drunk just so you can make out with him
Admit you fully plan on cheating on your boyfriend during the summer
Ditch your friends as they are leaving so you can continue to flirt with some drunk guy who was just kicked out of the bar for starting shit with some other patron, leaving us to be stuck worrying about you all night and me with your damn $300 coat you HAD to bring tonight even though it's too warm for a jacket or even a hoodie tonight

Yes, one of my friends who is new to my group does all this shit. And the thing that kills me even more than this bullshit is that everyone in my group except me and one other person thinks it's perfectly cool.

[Wingates_Hellsing]

Some people think that, because people are allowed by law to do whatever they wish in many instances, we should just up and accept it. IMO we shouldn't suffer the skank to breathe the same air as the rest of us, because I don't appreciate it nor tolerate it around me...

Fuckin' skanks....

[blas87]

I hate those stupid little drunk skanks that go around the bar grabbing/touching/flirting with every guy they see.

Dumb sluts, a lot of couples go out together.

Last Saturday night, some drunk slut grabbed my friend's husband's junk while he was playing pool. Then as she saw my friend coming towards her, she ran off. I mean, he didn't even LOOK at her or talk to her, she just walked up to him and DID IT!

One night a year or so ago (I KNEW this would happen, stupid boyfriend didn't believe me) some drunken nasty slut was dancing around every guy in the bar and my bf went to try to talk to her to see if she'd dance with his brother. No sooner did he touch her, the dumb slut pulls her shirt down trying to show him her boobs.

Yeah, let's just say it took multiple people to get me to quit making fists and go running after her, and I am NOT a big girl by any means.

[dendawg]

One night a year or so ago (I KNEW this would happen, stupid boyfriend didn't believe me) some drunken nasty slut was dancing around every guy in the bar and my bf went to try to talk to her to see if she'd dance with his brother. No sooner did he touch her, the dumb slut pulls her shirt down trying to show him her boobs.

Damn, I thought people like that only existed in Penthouse Forum.

[elsporko]

Sounds like the girl in the first post is having a very hard time adjusting to having her boyfriend in the navy and deployed. She's probably feeling scared and alone and reacting in a negative fashion. You should try talking to her and comforting her. I couldn't imagine what I would go through if my fiancee was gone for months at a time in a situation where she could easily be killed.

[Fryk]

I can sort of imagine. In the sense that I know I definitely WOULDN'T be looking for the first opportunity to cheat. The boyfriend being in the navy has nothing to do with this female's (not woman's) skankiness. She'd have ended up cheating on him one way or the other.

[elsporko]

You have alot of insight into this person you never met. Maybe she is subconciosly trying to sabatouge the relationship because she isn't emtionally mature enough to handle the hardships of being a military girlfriend.

[Greenday]

Sounds like the girl in the first post is having a very hard time adjusting to having her boyfriend in the navy and deployed. She's probably feeling scared and alone and reacting in a negative fashion. You should try talking to her and comforting her. I couldn't imagine what I would go through if my fiancee was gone for months at a time in a situation where she could easily be killed.

This isn't the first time he's been deployed. I believe it's either his second or third since they've been dating.

[crazylegs]

I couldn't imagine what I would go through if my fiancee was gone for months at a time in a situation where she could easily be killed.

What you do is this: You support them, your love for each other gets you through the hard times and you make sure that they know you love them more than ever.

And you get through it. You get over yourself so that your loved one feels special and loved, and knows they're returning to the love of their life.

You send them letters as often as you can write, you send them parcels as often as you can and you cherish every phone call. When you speak to them you tell them you love them as often as you can in case it's the last time.

That's what you go through.

[Boozy]

You have alot of insight into this person you never met.

Pot, meet kettle.

From your first post:

She's probably feeling scared and alone and reacting in a negative fashion.

We don't really have any evidence of that, do we? All we know is that she plans on cheating on him. That wouldn't be the first reaction of someone who is terrified for the safety of their loved one.

[Hobbs]

This isn't the first time he's been deployed. I believe it's either his second or third since they've been dating.

Did she do this the previous times? If so, I'd do what I can to let him know. There's so many bad stories out there about military relationships.

[Plaidman]

What you do is this: You support them, your love for each other gets you through the hard times and you make sure that they know you love them more than ever.

And you get through it. You get over yourself so that your loved one feels special and loved, and knows they're returning to the love of their life.

You send them letters as often as you can write, you send them parcels as often as you can and you cherish every phone call. When you speak to them you tell them you love them as often as you can in case it's the last time.

That's what you go through.

.... Lucky bastards. I should try to join them again. I could lie on the pysch exam this time.

elsporko? Once again... yeah. Kettle calling pot black. You act like you know, and snap at someone who gives a different opinion then yours.

She may be terrified. She may feel like she can't handle it. Or maybe she's hoping that he'll die so she'll be guilt free.

Ether way, she's being a grade a bitch.

[Greenday]

Did she do this the previous times? If so, I'd do what I can to let him know. There's so many bad stories out there about military relationships.

I wouldn't know. She just joined my group this semester and I'm not about to ask her. Regardless, I don't agree with anyone cheating for any reason. Whether or not he's in the service doesn't change a thing for me.

[Plaidman]

Regardless, I don't agree with anyone cheating for any reason. Whether or not he's in the service doesn't change a thing for me.

Meh. I agree. But some just do. Some woman find a man that they are far happier with then they ever were with their current boyfriend. So they cheat. Then dump boyfriend. It happens. No-one controls their heart. They can't help it if they love someone, then fall out of love with boyfriend and fall in deeper love with said boyfriend, and if they're right there, well might as well. Your planning on dumping the boyfriend anyway, so its basically over in their mind.

[Fryk]

I DO have a lot of knowlege about this female I've never met. It's basic human nature. People don't cheat because they're scared they can't handle a relationship, blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. Nope.

People DO cheat because there's a member of the sex they're attracted to who wants to have sex with them. And they don't have the self control to say "no". Everything else is bullshit rationalization.